that very moment and not sitting with Dr. Stern. An image of high school all over again popped into my head: going to school with, eating with, and worst of all living with people I didnât necessarily like. âI guess . . . how could it be better to be in college and be around all these strangersâand have to blend in with them and get along with themâthan to be at home? It might be boring, but I know whatâs up here. Iâm not cool, but nobodyâs decided Iâm uncool.â I wasnât sure if I had made this up just to please her or if it was true.
âHave you always worried about being uncool?â
âNo,â I said. âI mean, not that I know of. Maybe. I donât know.â A few uncomfortable flashbacks popped into my head, like finding my one solitary picture in the yearbook, and going to junior prom with Meg, who ended up leaving with a guy, so I had to get home by myself.
âBut you think youâll either be coolâor just not care if youâre coolâby next year?â
âMaybe,â I said. âYeah, maybe I wonât be as stressed about it.â Jane was asking tougher questions this time, firing back with more questions. âWhat about you, do you think Iâll be ready?â
âWell, I donât know you well enough yet,â she said. âAlthough at first glance Iâd say youâre probably already more ready than you know. There was a part of me that wanted to tell you to go right back where you came from.â
âWhy didnât you?â
Jane smiled. âBecause I think just choosing not to go is a bigger deal than you think it is. Even if youâre choosing not to do something, youâre still making a choice. Maybe itâs not a bad thing. But itâs something worth taking your time to considerâdonât just pretend it didnât happen.â
âHmm.â
âThereâs nothing wrong with taking the year off,â Jane said. âBut I think you need help making the most of it and using it to prep for what lies aheadâeven if itâs not school.â
âFine,â I said. âSounds good.â I resisted the urge to spin around in my chair.
âCecily, what I typically offer is something called cognitive-behavioral therapy, which basically means that I give you some exercises to try to make this year a good one, to prepare you to take the next steps, and we see how that works. Eventually I want you to get out of the house more, and I also think down the line it might be interesting to see what happens after some planned one-on-one time with your sister.â
âThat sounds like a nightmare,â I said. âAnyway, itâs not like we donât spend time together now. Maybe we spend too much time together.â
âWell, that might come later. Right now, Iâm going to give you an assignment,â said Jane. âBut you need to be willing to work with me. Do you think you can do that?â I nodded and tried to appear cooperative. I was so bored from the last month, I was willing to take orders from a stranger. And even if I still couldnât figure out why I had turned around in August, maybe it wouldnât matter as long as Iâd be able to move forward eventually. âI want you to just get in touch with at least one old friend from high school that you havenât yet. Wonât your friends be back soon for Thanksgiving break? Itâs not healthy for you not to hang out with anybody your age. And maybe itâll help you talk to someone you trust. Youâll feel better.â
âIâm embarrassed,â I said.
âWhy?â she asked.
âBecause Iâm lame and theyâre in school,â I said. I couldnât believe I was saying this. I wish I at least had a more mature way of getting this across. âI mean, I feel like a baby or something.â
âSo what?â she said. âDo