spending time with family, weekends had become precious. I wasnât prepared to trade my trysts with Darius for the banality of Lakeside consumerism under any circumstances.
I knew I was denying feelings that had grown quickly and unexpectedly for a man I could never have dreamed I would want to be with. Iâve heard you canât choose who you love, and Iâm certain he wouldnât have come out top in an identity parade of potential partners. Not dressed, anyway.
When I closed the door behind him tears welled up and the strength in my legs gave way. Grief took over, more so than after hearing of Colinâs passing. A quick but brutal heart attack had taken him without warning. Heâd always passed his medicals with flying colours and, being a moderate man with no excessive hobbies or habits, was expected to live a long and healthy life. Colin didnât get stressed, either, so couldnât be seen as a typical âheart attack waiting to happenâ. Other than occasional palpitations brought on by the council tax demand or the refuse collectors leaving potato peelings on the drive, he was easy-going and pragmatic. It certainly wasnât the way I expected him to go.
Iâd missed the practical things and the constant daily companionship, but never felt his loss as I did the departure of this delicious and highly unsuitable young man. Heâd injected something far more than his enormous manhood into my very being. Darius had got to my heart and I felt bereft.
Iâd looked at the business card he left me and was tempted to call the number, but knew I wouldnât be able to work all those noughts and crosses you have to put in when calling abroad. Thoughts of when weâd been together flooded back. If Iâd known it was going to be the last time Iâd be touching him, feeling him, I would have focused more, rather than lapsing into the occasional thought about whether I should get a new duvet cover.
Knowing wallowing would be fruitless, Iâd decided on a practical approach to dealing with the end of the affair. Every rising emotion would be stamped on. Every memory I would erase â either with a few stiff drinks or diversionary tactics. I would definitely take bridge more seriously and join the Ladies Lunch and Pleasant Outings committee at the golf club.
None of these things had worked particularly well. My heart was in pieces and my ability to conduct myself on a daily basis was almost impossible. Just going to the local shops for a paper involved huge amounts of energy I could barely muster. I watched other people getting on with their lives. They all seemed to be in happy couples, blissfully unaware that the woman walking towards them wanted to throw down her bags and scream at the world for being so unfair. Often Iâd go home and just cry, soothing myself with flashbacks to the blissful, passionate coupling that had filled my soul with every single thing that had ever been missing. Is this what Iâd been missing out on all my life? Only to taste it and lose it within a few short weeks?
I would read poetry, hoping for solace in knowing that I wasnât the only one to feel this exquisitely exhausting and overwhelming pain. Alfred Lord Tennyson had no idea of what a woman could feel when he wrote âBetter to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.â
There were times I wished Iâd never met Darius at all.
CHAPTER EIGHT
Iâm not sure how I got to be sixty without really noticing. Iâm not particularly worried about it, just taken by surprise. People tell me I donât look my age. I put that down to keeping a slim, neat figure and moisturising every day, although I have good genes â inherited from my motherâs side of the family. She looked a bit like Vivien Leigh, and some say I do too. I certainly donât look as old as Mrs Goodwin over the road, who hasnât retained any youthful looks. I think she
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