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is tormented until he gives up the location of the loot.
    Other : Any of a large number of possible scenarios to enhance sexual sessions.
     
    Sensory Deprivation – Some or all of the sub's senses are deprived to enhance the sexual experience.
    Blindfolds : The most common type of deprivation, it enhances the other senses.
    Mouth gags : Used to silence the sub during teasing or painful sessions.
    Ear plugs : Used to block the sub from hearing what the Dominant is doing.
    Full hoods : Used to block eyes, nose, ears or any one at a time.
    All at once : Blocking everything except the sense of touch. Can be very arousing.
     
    Sexual Service – Serving all the Dominant's sexual needs and desires.
    Full body massage : Self explanatory. But very relaxing for her.
    Oral/vaginal : The sub is required to provide oral sex whenever the Dominant desires.
    Oral/anal : The sub is required to provide oral stimulation of the Dominant's anus.
    Vibrators : Used to help the Dominant reach orgasm.
    Masturbation of her : Using the sub's fingers to stimulate the Dominant to orgasm.
     
    Shaving – Any part shaved by the Dominant can be very erotic.
    Genitals only : Often required for esthetics and/or ease of access.
    All body hair : Sometimes required for cross dressing.
    Head only : Done as a sign of ownership and the wearing of wigs for cross dressing.
     
    Spanking, Paddling, etc. - A form of punishment highly recommended by many.
    By hand : This includes over-the-knee (OTK) spankings.
    Hairbrush : Not only an effective paddle but can be laid out in public to instill obedience.
    Small Paddle : Usually light weight for ease of wielding. Can be very effective.
    Large Paddle : Heavier, covers a larger area, but not always as effective as a small one.
    Riding crop : Very effective tool. Can be purchased at equine supply houses for very little.
    Cane : Any of a variety of straight, flexible, materials used for paddling. Can be very severe when not used judiciously.
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    Chapter 8 : Creating an Agreement
     
    Some people think that creating a formal, written agreement is just silly. If it is good enough to settle international disputes and create a lasting peace between nations, I say, “Why not?”
    I will go so far as to say that most people think agreements are best when they are verbal. In fact, many of you will just skip this entire chapter. Some of you will read it, then ignore it. But if you are truly serious about setting up any kind of successful relationship, then you would do well to have a formal, written agreement so that both of you know exactly what is expected.
    So whether you have (or want to have) a co-op style relationship, a Dictatorship, or something in between, you will have a much better chance of success if you have a formal written agreement (period). Though the majority of couples never enter into a formal agreement, once one partner thinks their rights in the relationship have been violated, it won't be long before a conflict arises. With an agreement, you can avoid any real conflict by either: 1) referring to the agreement or; 2) renegotiating the agreement.
    Before you put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard as the case may be), you should really talk things out. Sit down with your partner and discuss anything and everything that you can think of that should go into your agreement. The questions you answered in the last few chapters were only designed to get you started. For example, punishments were mentioned. You might need to make it clear exactly what kinds of punishments you are talking about. I mean, will he be spanked over her knee or will it be okay for her to use a bull whip? Perhaps something in between would be best. Also, think about other things such as cross-dressing, for example. Will she be able to make him wear anything she wants any time she wants? Or will there be some kind of limit as to when or where she can do this?
    As I said, anything you can think of that she might want (or