dominatrix, playing the man’s role for a moment.
He would want you to ‘punish’ or ‘reward’ him, depending on how he ‘behaves’.
Such role-play is actually good to explore, and helpful to journey into long-held urges and maybe resolve past sexual trauma.
7. Threesome with two women
The holy grail of most men, if not all!
Your sweetheart daydreams about a threesome, of course with him being the king of that two-female harem.
He would want to say it to you, explore it with you, but wouldn’t dare.
Your lover imagines himself being pampered, massaged, covered with kisses, and romanced by two women – you being one, if needed.
8. Group sex
Collective intercourse is appealing to some men, especially those who are the exhibitionist type.
If your darling falls in that category, chances are, he secretly would want to partake in group sex.
If he is the jealous type, he would want you out of the picture, so he can relish that mental, sexual food all by himself.
9. One-night stand
One-night stands are as popular in women’s brains as they are in men’s psyche.
That fantasy has to do with the spice and tantalizing allure of hot, steamy and risky sex with an equally hot, steamy and risky individual you may not, and don’t want to, see again.
Your man has that vision, and you can use the powerful lever of role-playing to help him fulfill it.
10. Air sex
Many men find sex tempting in an airplane flying thousands of meters above Earth.
Your darling probably falls in that category of ‘air sex’ lovers, so why don’t you give the intercourse of a lifetime by surprising him?
Granted, airliners don’t pay much attention to bathroom comfort and size – they have more important things, such as passenger safety, to think about.
But if you are lucky to fly in first-class or business, you might want to be creative with the air sex concept.
11. The sexy cop
Your aficionado dreams of being arrested or admonished by a sexy female cop.
He wouldn’t mind, within a reasonable range, paying a small traffic fine or discussing with the office administering the fine.
Again, this fantasy is deeply inbuilt in men, like the one entailing all uniformed women, whether they are in law enforcement, entertainers or caregivers.
12. ‘Santa Baby’
We all know Santa as a jolly white-bearded portly man.
But what you may not suspect is that many young boys wish Santa were a female.
When they grow up, they still carry that idea of a female Santa in them, and this is what creates the fantasy of ‘Santa Baby,’ a sexy woman clothed in Santa attire…again, the allure of the uniform.
13. ‘Russian spy’
The Cold War and its geopolitical implications – and maybe Hollywood’s productions – have left mental relics in several men, one of which is the Russian female spy.
Ideally, she is gorgeous (deadly gorgeous, that is), unafraid, drawn to adventure, and fit…all qualities that your man wished you had.
The perfect femme fatale , if you see what I mean!
And this is why he surreptitiously would want to call you Ekaterina, Anastasiya, Valeriya, Iskra or Klavdiya sometimes, just for the opportunity to implement part, if not all, of his fancy.
14. ‘French maid’
If Russian roulette is not your man’s thing, he might be into French maids.
Seen as gorgeous, caring and submissive – although that is far from reality – French maids populate the brains of many men.
Your partner would want you to give him occasionally some French kisses, eat French fries with him, savor a Dom Perignon, and spend a good night of romance with you.
Is that déjà vu for you?
No problem, do it again. It never hurts.
15. Submissive hottie
Your husband, fiancé or boyfriend dreams of a submissive hottie, whether she is a schoolgirl, nurse, firefighter or colleague…or you.
He would want to dominate for one night, have total control, give orders and be obeyed.
To play along the same fantasy, tell him one day, especially in the
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