her light pink button-down bodysuit.It was a lot of clothes to have on when your bladder is about to burst.
Dakota just sat there and turned back to the television. As the humor of Damon Wayans entertained Dakota, Jordan suddenlyreappeared in the living room.
âGirl, what is wrong with you?â Dakota said.
âI had to pee,â Jordan responded.
âOK, so what was all that âthe nerve of himâ stuff?â
âJayon ... he has, like, slipped and bumped his head.â
âWhy, what did he do?â Dakota said, slightly laughing at Jordanâs demeanor.
âItâs more like what he didnât do. What he didnât do is realizeby now that this relationship is falling apart. He comes and goes as he pleases, and he has no regard for what I feel.â
âWhat are you speaking of?â Dakota asked, getting frustratedwith the beating around the bush.
âItâs just, you would think after I forgave him for the Michelle thing that he would be more appreciative of me and put more effort into our relationship, but he doesnât. To make it worse, he gets mad at me that I have some trust issues now.â
âYeah, men donât get it. I donât know whatâs taking you so long to get that.â
âDo you know he had the nerve to tell me itâs not his fault I donât like to do anything but be with him?â
âWow ... thatâs cold.â
âTell me about it. He made me seem like some bum chick that has nothing going for herself. He made it seem like he is paying all my bills and keeping me. I was truly offended by that.â
âWell, I told you that you need to do more and stop sitting up under him.â
âThatâs the thing; Iâm not sitting up under him. I just donât like clubbing like that. Is that so bad?â
âNo, but you see how men get.They get complacent.They take it for granted.You need to get out there to remind them that you can be taken.â
âItâs so sad, even at thirty-four we still have to play these games.â
âSad, but true,â Dakota replied.
Upon finishing her statement, Dakota stood up and walked into the kitchen. She had been babysitting Jason for the past three hours when Omar dropped him off. She had just put him to bed and come back down to get a snack and watch television, but sheâd left her snack on the kitchen counter.
Dakota came back into the living room with a plate full of potato chips, some dip, and a glass of cran-grape juice.
âSo, all of this stemmed from the other night when he didnât answer his phone when you called?â Dakota asked when she sat back on the couch.
âBasically. When we spoke, I told him he always seems to have some excuse for where he is, and he got all pretend offendedand then tried to flip it back on me.â
âWhy you say pretend offended?â
âBecause I know that he sees where Iâm coming from. Heâs late for plans we have all the time; thereâs way too many times he doesnât answer his phone when I call the first time; he works late a lot. Itâs just that I donât feel like a priority anymore.â
âWell, is he just busier at work and you canât understand that?â
âI donât know, but I know that itâs taking my sense of securitywith him away completely.â
Dakota took a gulp from her glass and chewed a couple of potato chips at once.
âYou should have never let him move offices. At least if you two still worked together and in the same place, you could know when he is really working late and when heâs not.â
âI know, but at the time we thought it was best since we werenât together and it was awkward; and the job offer he got was a great opportunity. I wish I wouldâve known it would make things so bad, though,â Jordan replied.
âSo, think about this question for a second before you answerit,â