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CONS
    On the flip side, some people find doggie style to be too anonymous and they miss the face-to-face contact of other positions. It certainly can be harder to communicate, especially for new lovers and anal beginners. She doesn’t have a lot of control over the penetration action, since he really takes the lead. Because he has lots of thrusting power in this position, he runs the risk of thrusting too hard or deep right off the bat without realizing it, which his partner may not like.
TRY THIS VARIATION!
DOGGIE ANGLE
    When she puts her ass up in the air and her head or head and shoulders down, her body is angled perfectly for him to stimulate her G-spot. This can be more comfortable for some women than being on all fours.
DOGGIE STYLE DOS AND DON’TS
    Yes, it’s a very popular and versatile position, but that doesn’t mean you can’t teach an old dog new tricks. Here are some reminders and tips for getting the most out of Doggie Style.
Do finger her anus during vaginal intercourse in Doggie Style
Don’t try to “sneak” from the vagina to the ass
Do warm up her butt with a sensual spanking before penetration
Don’t go too hard too quickly: remember this position allows for very deep penetration and strong thrusts.
Do encourage her to rub her clitoris in this position.
Don’t switch from ass to vagina
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Giving It Good
Reach your hand around her to stimulate her clit.
Grab her hips and pull her back onto your penis.
Squeeze her ass, and admire the view.
If you and your partner like your sex on the rough side, Doggie Style is perfect for spanking, slapping, and hair pulling.
Lean forward onto her for skin-to-skin contact and kissing.
Getting It Good
Reach back and help guide him inside your ass.
Take the lead in initial penetration and come back on his penis. Start slowly and wiggle onto him, giving you control of the speed and depth.
Use a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris; any size vibrator works in this position.
Slip a dildo inside your vagina for double penetration.
If it’s uncomfortable for you to lean on the palms of your hands or if you have bad wrists, try putting the weight on your forearms instead.
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CHAPTER 6
WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU
     
    Practice Makes Perfect
     
by Alison Tyler
     
    C HELSEA WAS A GOOD GIRL . The type of exceptional student who always color-coded her exam notes and studied extra hard from midterms all the way through finals. The type of good girl who drove her roommates crazy by insisting on washing up after a big party—rather than letting the wine glasses and beer bottles fester until morning.
    “Let’s get it tomorrow,” Julia always begged, but Chelsea shook her head. Made more sense to restore proper order before performing her normal evening routine, not even skipping flossing regardless of the fact that it was 1 a.m.
    Chelsea didn’t drink. She didn’t smoke. And although she
had
engaged in sexual intercourse with her one long-term boyfriend, they only ever did it Missionary style, with the lights out.
    “Basically, Chelsea doesn’t have any fun,” her neighbor said to Julia when the girl was through bitching about the two hours they’d put in cleaning after the latest party.
    “I don’t think fun is on her agenda. She hasn’t gotten it color-coded in her date book, so the concept doesn’t exist.”
    Tom got a look in his eye as he watched Chelsea watering the window box. He’d had her in his radar since the start of sophomore year, impressed by the ferocity with which she approached studying. When he’d commented about her color-coded notes, she’d blushed the same fuchsia as the top card on her stack and said, “Practice makes perfect.”
    Tom was not a good boy. He didn’t study when he didn’t have to, preferring to cram before a big test. He lived in a casually sloppy apartment, rarely mowed the lawn, and only did laundry when he was out of boxers. The thought that he and Chelsea might make an attractive couple was less