would most likely do a lot less, probably just enough to get through the day, so they could enjoy the rest of it with a beauty in their arms or in their beds. Technology would not have evolved at anywhere near the pace if all males were able to get the women they desire. Yet technology has evolved, and our world is full of useful inventions, and the males who created these inventions (few of them were female) are considered heroic, virtuous, and greatly celebrated in public.
Women truly are the greatest motivation there is for males. A lot of good music and useful inventions would never have come to fruition if males knew that they could just go straight after the women they wanted without being successful in society first. This is why there will always be high-level incentives to make females play hard to get and drive males to work hard for females.
However, this approach does not make sense today. Controlling males’ effort might have been a good idea, perhaps even critical, in the past. But these days, our standards of living are high, most of us live in societies that are peaceful and prosperous, and there are billions of males. Not every single male must sacrifice himself.
Perhaps long ago there were tribes in which males and females did not do much more than pursue and enjoy each other. Unfortunately, they would eventually be wiped out by any rival tribe that was willing to put that pleasure aside for a brief moment and spend some time developing weapons and martial arts. I do not know if this is true, but I do know that all the societies that have survived until today have well-organized military forces, and today males focus a lot of time and energy on things other than the pursuit of women, even if they admit they want nothing else. I also know that you are not risking your survival by pursuing women today, and neither does focusing on women for a while mean you have to give up your career entirely or completely neglect your community. However, you ought to know at least that there
is
an alternative to becoming a societal sheep, to be a man, and that alternative happens to be what women want.
Obviously, I am not interested in destabilizing society, which is why I am not out on a political campaign to change our socialization by altering our schools’ curriculums, the laws of our nations, or the way we raise our children. However, I do want to discuss the topic of feminism briefly, as it has already and is still trying to do
all
of that, but feel free to skip this section if you have no interest in politics.
Feminism
The idea that females are
more
valuable than males in a society may come as a surprise to you if you live in a country where feminist ideas have become popular, particularly the notion that females are unequal to males, but have been and still are less valued, not more. The opposite is really the case, and males have always been and still are the disposable sex as far as a society is concerned. However, the idea that females require more protection,even to the extent of calling them victims, will always be
politically
correct. But an idea that is popular is not necessarily accurate.
It appears that more males tend to be more feminine these days than in the past, and entire generations of boys are being intentionally raised to be more like girls in some of the industrialized nations due to the rise and political success of feminism. Many females complain that males were
somehow
manlier a decade ago, without understanding that this is the obvious result of inviting feminist ideas into our schools and institutions. The latest generations of males who are currently being raised with these new ideas are even more emasculated and effeminate than ever and are already finding it more difficult to get girls (as if their fathers did not have a hard enough time already), without seeing the connection between diminished masculinity and reduced attractiveness to females.
Few people are aware of this,