vibrator, set it to low, and place it either at the bottom of his shaft, or right beneath his testicles. Don’t stop stroking. Be sure to soak in every expression and reaction from the new and oh-so-pleasurable feelings you’re giving him.
Guys: Here’s where you become the Bionic Man. With both of you standing, take control of the vibrator. Hold it in place at the bottom of your shaft, and begin rubbing the head of your penis sloooowly against herclitoris and labia. The vibrations—together with the slippery smooth texture of your head—will send shivers of pleasure through both of you.
Tanya, a 47-year-old married woman with two kids, always thought the faint orgasms with her husband Jack were adequate. “One of my girlfriends gave me a vibrator as a birthday gift,” she says. “I’d never tried a vibrator before, but I was so curious. I decided to give it a try, especially since Jack had taken the kids to the zoo. And wow! What powerful orgasms! I never imagined they could feel so good. I was stunned by all the years gone by where I thought I’d been satisfied. When I got up the nerve, I delicately introduced it into the bedroom, and now Jack’s got a few new tricks up his sleeve! My orgasms will never be the same. Thank the Lord!!”
Sadie Sez:
Be sure to insert your batteries correctly by matching the + and - signs inside the battery compartment.
To extend your battery (and toy) life, take out the batteries and store them separately between uses.
7
The Anal Playground
A nal toy: Any object designed to pleasure the anus, whether on the surface or by penetration.
Do you find anal play pleasurable? Have you ever tried it with a partner—or solo? Don’t be intimidated. Contrary to myth, if you follow a few safety guidelines, back door play can be quite a treat. In fact, whether you enjoy delicate fingertip pressure at the opening, or penetration with fingers, dildos or a plug, it can be extremely stimulating.
You may not orgasm from anal stimulation alone, but together with clitoral or vaginal play, you’ll enjoy stronger, more exhilarating orgasms. There’s a wide world of tempting, creative toys available today to enhance your experience—and undoubtedly there’s a perfect model for you!
Feeling Adventurous? Read This First:
Communicate
Anal play is a perfectly healthy desire in men and women. Talking about anal play—before, during and after—always helps enhance your experience and avoid physical discomfort. Be sensitive to your partner’s feelings; don’t pressure beyond anyone’s comfort zone, and respect all likes and dislikes.
Remember: communication, patience and proper technique add up to highly stimulating fun!
Lube up
Unlike the vagina, there’s no natural lubrication produced in the anus and rectum. This means you must add your own lubrication before engaging in this activity—even more than you think necessary. Silicone lubes are ideal for back door play, since they stay slippery longer than water-based lubes and generally have a thicker texture.
Cleanliness
Never insert a finger or sex toy you’ve used for anal play into your vagina until you’ve washed the digit or toythoroughly with anti-bacterial soap and hot water. Transferring bacteria from one area to another could cause infection. No back-and-forthing without washing!
Safety
Your rectum is lined with thin, delicate tissue. It’s why you need to inspect anything you plan to put in there for rough edges that may scratch or tear the lining. Your fingernails must be well-trimmed and filed smooth. And feel your toys for even the slightest seams—then smooth any rough edges with a nail file.
Relax. And then relax even more
Relax your mind. Relax your body. And most of all, relax your sphincters! This allows the tissue folds of the anal canal to expand, making them more receptive to penetration. It’s also your key to enjoying the experience. Let yourself go in all ways, and revel in the sensations of the erotic