followed except your dad. He never looked up at them, but held tightly to his grandmotherâs hand as he watched their feet walk away. Grandpa Tim left Emmanuel Baptist Church and returned to the Bronx fifteen years later to bury his mother.â
âOh Alicia!â Andrea rolled her eyes before putting the glasses of iced tea on the table. âItâs just family gossip.â She stood behind Alicia with her hand on her hip.
âItâs not family gossip, itâs the truth.â Aliciaresponded, looking over her shoulder at Andrea and then turning back to face me.
âDoes your dad get along with Grandpa Tim?â Since Alicia was discussing family business, I needed to know.
âI wouldnât say my dad doesnât get along with him, I would say he didnât agree with what went on.â
âIt was wrong and he went along with it,â Andrea added sitting down next to me.
I was on the edge of my seat. âWhat happened?â
Alicia crossed her legs, letting her right foot swing. âMy dad liked getting attention from the girls in the congregation and he went out with just about all of them.â
âUntil this girl he really liked turned up pregnant and said my dad was the father,â Andrea finished sarcastically. âGrandpa Tim wanted my dad to marry her, but he knew the baby wasnât his. She was the one girl he didnât have sex with.â
âWhat? Get outta here!â My mind was working hard to process this family history.
âIt was a life lesson for my dad. It wasnât the attention of all the girls he really wanted. The sad part is, it took my dad years to admit he really wanted his motherâs attention. Grandma Rita was too busy being the first lady and trying to keep Grandpa Tim.â Andrea seemed sympathetic.
I sat there enthralled. This was better than a soap opera.
Alicia sipped her tea. âGirl, remember Uncle Matt?â
âAlicia!â Andreaâs tone was chastising.
âThis is family talk, she needs to know.â Alicia was flippant with Andrea.
âMy dad says he prefers to be called Matty. He never speaks of him unless heâs talking about damnation,â I stated finally having information to add.
âGirl you know he started spending his summers touring the country when he was sixteen. My dad said the following summer he stopped talking to girls and a year later he developed a lisp.â Alicia laughed and it took me a few minutes to understand the implication.
âActually,â Andrea added, âI agree with my dad. Uncle Matt always had a lot of unresolved issues.â
âI havenât seen him since I was about seven,â I added still feeling the need to share some family history. âHe came to visit us and my dad wouldnât let him play the piano in church. He never came back. I donât even see Grandpa Tim and Grandma Rita that often even though they live in New York.â
Alicia continued her saga defining our grandmother, Mrs. Rita Allen, as the best-dressed woman in the church. Grandma Rita strategically removed herself from the gossip about her husband by creating a fashion world of her own and becoming a socialite who supported every well-known community cause. Alicia said that our grandmother defined pretentious and, in her quest for fashion fame, she emotionally neglected her children.
Andrea joined in the conversation and relayed how Grandpa Tim made Matthew the minister of music when he was only fourteen-years-old. It wasnât long before music became Matthewâs god. There was nothing more important to him than being able to bring people to their feet with his music. The gospel message in the music became secondary to the emotionalism. Andrea said Uncle Matt has been chasing fame and fortune for most his life. She said her dad refers to Matthew as a gifted musician who can make a piano talk.
Alicia concluded the family history lesson with how her