50 Shades of Kink by Tristan Taormino Read Free Book Online

that’s not what we’re after at all. But if your partner is reliably orgasmic, then this is another fun way to control her. Think of it as making your partner have an orgasm on demand. When you feel like she’s getting close (or she has told you she is, as instructed),
you can demand that she come. Or you can put her in some nice bondage, then strap a vibrator to her clitoris, so she has no choice but to come. The dominant gets to call the shots, the submissive gets to follow the command and come: win-win !

Sexual Service
    Dominants can require all kinds of service from submissives, but sexual service is one of the most popular fantasies people have. Demanding sexual service and making your pleasure his only priority is a clear way to exert power over a submissive. Not only can you make a specific demand, but you can enhance the experience in different ways: require he be sexually available to you whenever you want; provide specific directions about how you want something done to you; make the task more difficult by binding his hands so he can only use his mouth; put a hood on him and tell him you’re going to use his body for your pleasure; or combine service for you that turns him on, like cunnilingus, with orgasm denial for him.
    Providing sexual service is a big turn-on for many submissives who enjoy being focused on the dominant’s pleasure and/or being sexually used or objectified. Some really enjoy the role of the sexually available, willing, and able sex slave who could be called on at a moment’s notice (provided it works with everyone’s hectic schedule, of course). They enjoy creating a “non-negotiable” sex scenario (which, of course, they’ve actually negotiated beforehand): there is no question about who initiates, who does what, or what’s expected. They don’t
have to overthink anything, just do what they are told. For some, this allows them the freedom and permission to be constantly horny, ready to go, even “oversexed,” since that is part of being a good sex slave.

Chapter 5
    Sensory Deprivation: Blindfolds, Hoods, and Earplugs
    I’m blindfolded and gagged on a pillow in a cold basement. I can feel the cool air and hear water dripping. I hear high heels coming closer and am struck across my ass and chest, slowly increasing in intensity. She straddles my shoulders after a good flogging and orders me to pleasure her. Right before she is about to come, she moves away and finishes herself off while all I can do is listen to her moans and screams.
    â€”Chase
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    When you take away someone’s sense of sight or sound, their other senses become heightened. When you’re blindfolded, noises sound louder, smells are more intense, and even the lightest touch can send chills down the spine. When you can’t hear anything or you can hear only one particular sound, you focus on what you can feel, smell, possibly see (if you can), or simply sense around you. Sensory deprivation play focuses on depriving someone of sight or sound—with blindfolds, hoods, earplugs, headphones, or some combination of these. This deprivation can help to put someone in a particular frame of mind; people wearing these devices often feel curious and excited as they anticipate what might come next in a scene. Sensory deprivation toys can also help someone focus on what’s happening to their body, making each sensation stronger.

Blindfolds
    Blindfolds come in polyester, satin, leather, and other fabrics, and it’s a matter of personal taste which you prefer. Some sleep masks—those that really block out light—work very well as blindfolds. Some blindfolds have an elastic strap; others fasten with Velcro or a buckle. An adjustable elastic strap is preferable to one that isn’t adjustable, although if there is enough give, a nonadjustable blindfold should be fine; just make sure the blindfold fits snugly but is not too tight. If you’re going