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instead of a dildo. I wear rubber gloves whenever I do that to keep my fingernails from causing problems. In fact, I suggest using a condom on anything that enters your partner's anus. Putting a dildo in his mouth does not require a condom as long as the dildo is clean. Yes, you can make him suck on the realistic dildo you bought for your toy bag. It makes a nice practice device to go along with that bi-sexual fantasy you told about. And while we are talking about things that go into his anus...
    Strap-on Some Fun: You should always have a good strap-on dildo harness in your toy bag. Many men get a strong, submissive feeling, that of being controlled, when a woman uses a strap-on dildo on them. You can enter the anus (with lots of lubrication, of course), or you can have him simulate a little bi-sexual activity when he sucks on it. This may not be something that you ever thought about doing, but believe me when I tell you, I have spoken with more than one woman who admitted that after having tried it, they really liked it. It can give you a feeling of power. That, in turn, can make talking to him erotically, taking control in other areas of your relationship, and basically feeling more in charge, much easier to accomplish. Many men really enjoy anal play of this nature. The anus, being a point in the body with lots and lots of nerve endings, is a natural erogenous zone. So it only makes sense that grabbing him by his hips and (gently) thrusting yourself, with an artificial penis, into him would feel good to the both of you.
    That is just a sampling of the things you can do with his chastity cage in place. Now let's see how to tease him without it...
     
    Dicking Around:
    This is where I highly recommend that you restrain your partner because you are going to remove his chastity device. He should not be allowed to touch himself at any time. Therefore, his hands, at least, must be restrained. As a good KeyHolder, it wouldn't be proper if you were to allow him to masturbate or pleasure himself at all, without your permission. Therefore, keep him bound. At least his hands. And remember, all the things we talked about above can be done with is chastity device removed.
    Your Pleasure: Of course, your pleasure comes first. If you are going to want him to enter you at any time (other than when you want him to have an orgasm) you should coat his penis with some kind of numbing, or desensitizing, cream. There are a number of products on the market made especially for this purpose. Some are better than others. I have heard of women using Ora-Jel(R), but I am not sure I want to recommend it. I do, however, highly recommend a product called “Boy Butter” numbing cream. You can obtain it from many on-line adult toy stores and even in some brick and mortar stores. Whatever you use, the objective is to prevent his penis from feeling just about anything. That way, you can “ride” him as long as you like without fear of an ejaculation on his part.
    The proper method of application is to coat the penis with the numbing cream and give it a few minutes to work. Usually five minutes is long enough. Once it has had a chance to do its job, you can wipe it off using a clean, dry cloth. A washcloth works well. If you use a condom, you won't need to wipe it off. In fact, leaving it on will have a more lasting effect. But if you want to feel his penis inside you without the condom, it is best to wipe it down good before climbing on board. You don't want your parts to go numb, too.
    In most cases, keeping him hard during sexual intercourse won't be a problem. If you follow a few simple rules. If you are naked (or at least topless) he will be visually stimulated (unless he is blindfolded). If you put a blindfold on him, it may be necessary to talk to him while you are having intercourse. Of course, you can't talk about the weather, or your personal finances, or even how good the stock market is doing. You have to talk about something erotic. If you