thatâs even worse than cheating on him for real. Sometimes I scare myself. And that goes not just for my husband but for the thoughts that overwhelm me in general. Itâs become impossible. When I was nursing our first child, I was so tired, I was in a state of such nervous agitation over his endless illnesses and my chronic lack of sleep, I was so tormented by his screaming and crying, that one day I had a nervous breakdown, a moment of insanity. In the middle of the night the boy started screaming again and I jumped up, exhausted, and suddenly such hatred bubbled up inside me, such rage, such fury, that I was ready to kill him. I actually snatched the child from his cribâI remember I was suddenly struck by the idea of throwing him off the balcony. This horrified me so that things suddenly felt crazy after all, I was a second away from the irrevocable. After that night, my milk dried up. Listen to me, because it would never occur to a mother to kill her own child!
What are you talking about! At work I deal with stories you could never even imagine, but you know Iâve gotten used to it and I do my job. One man, for instance, quarreled with his wife and slaughtered her and their two children with the bread knife. The older was four and the younger was an infant. Then he came to his senses and started to slit his own veins, and while he was bleeding, he set fire to the apartment and jumped out the window. Another forced his daughter to sleep with him, and that very night she killed him with an ax. A third beat his brother to death with a log because they couldnât figure out how to divide up thehouse theyâd inherited. A fourth tortured twins, neighbor children, raped them, poked out their eyes, and left them to die in an abandoned cellarâand then went through the worry with their parents, acted outraged, and took part in the searches, until they happened to expose him. You wake up, have breakfast, get ready for work, and you already know whatâs going to happen. One man choked his own mother with a stocking and carried the body to the outhouse piece by piece, and I said to him: âPlease sign here!â And so it goes, day after day, year after year. If itâs not Peter, itâs Nikolai; if itâs not the doting father, itâs the loving son. Tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, a hundred years from now. The words, even those are the same: I didnât see it. I wasnât there. It wasnât me. Nor is the charge ever very original: âconsumed by an unquenchable thirst for gain,â âblinded by envy, tormented by his awareness of being a nobody,â âthe scum, having lost all humanity, to satisfy a momentâs fancy,â âafter foully taking advantage of the helplessness of his father, who was crippled by paralysis,â âwho for twenty years cleverly and perfidiously concealed his criminal essence under a mask of decency.â And the defense babbles on the same way: âmade desperate by the hopelessness and pointlessness of his pitiful existence;â âhaving no other way to defend his profaned honor;â âbeing a victim of a prison educationâsince if youâre born in prison all youâve seen around you since childhood is rapists and murderers;â âYes, blood was spilled, and the instrument of murder is before you, but look at the remorse this unfortunate man has shown! Instead of convicting him, share the grief of a man who murdered his own son!â; âMy God, even you must have been thoroughly oiled and felt a wild, half-bestial, half-childish desire to take revenge on someone for your good-for-nothing, betrayed life, for all the agonies and injustices, for everything youâve suffered at the hands of people near and far, God, and your own self. Havenât you?â They do things even they canât imagine, and I tell them, Write, now, tokeep from losing your mind, write a final word not in