secret.
âYouâre stealing my little girl away from God,â her father said.
âDaddy,â Joanna protested, furious that her family would take such delight in teasing her.
âCut it out, you two.â Her mother stepped in to rescue her. âJoanna considered the convent when she was a high school freshman. Thatâs all there is to it.â
âWell, God canât have her,â Greg said, throwing his arm around her. He kissed the top of her head. âIâve got her now.â
Rick took another loud bite of his apple. âWhenâs the wedding?â
Greg and Joanna exchanged glances, and then burst out laughing because they didnât know. Soon, they decided. Greg would serve his year in Vietnam and when he returned, theyâd get married. While he was off at war, Joanna would make all the wedding arrangements.
Eventually the date was set for September of the following year. That gave Joanna and her mother a little more than fourteen months to plan.
Two days later, Greg left for Vietnam. Joanna rode with him to the airport, whereâalong with his mother and fatherâshe tearfully saw him off. As the jet zoomed into the sky, she felt a sensation of dread and wondered if this would be the last time she saw Greg.
A week following his departure for Asia, Joanna enteredthe hospital nursing program. Within a matter of days, her world revolved around her studies, writing Greg and all the planning that went into a big wedding.
âI donât know what Iâd do if I didnât have the wedding to distract me,â she wrote Greg early in December as her hi-fi belted out âI Canât Get No Satisfactionâ by the Rolling Stones. âIf I wasnât busy thinking about the wedding, Iâd be worrying about you. Now, honey, please take care of yourself. I love you so much.â
Gregâs letters were full of details about his assignment and his life in Saigon, where he was stationed. He spoke of the squalor and the effects of the war on the people of the Southeast Asian country. He mailed her small things he found in the local shopsâa bracelet, silk pajamas, an ivory-handled mirror. He was fortunate not to be in a combat situation; instead, heâd been assigned to desk duty with the Military Police and typed up volumes of paperwork whenever a soldier was sent to the stockade. One bonus to this assignment was that he had plenty of time to write. In the beginning, he mailed a long letter nearly every day.
January 3, 1966
Sweetheart,
Thanks for sending me the fabric swatches for the bridesmaidsâ dresses. You sure you want five bridesmaids? Never mind, you can have ten if it makes you happy. I like the green one best, but you decide. Iâll come up with five ushers, but Iâll probably need to ask a cousin or two.
It was hard not being home for Christmas. I hope you like your gift. A set of bone china isnât as romantic as I wouldâve liked, but that was what you said you wanted. I hope you like the pattern I picked out. Justthinkâone day youâll be my wife and youâll cook me dinner and serve it to me on those very plates.
Write soon. I live for your letters.
Greg
Joanna lived for his letters, too. Each day she hurried home from school and sorted through the mail, suffering keen disappointment if there wasnât one.
âI donât think thereâs a letter from Greg,â her mother said. It was a cold February afternoon, and Joanna, still wearing her coat, flipped through a stack of envelopes on the kitchen table.
âI havenât heard from him in three days.â
âIâm sure heâs fine.â
âIâm sure he is, too,â Joanna said, but she wondered and worried all the same.
That evening her best friend phoned. âWeâre going to see My Fair Lady. Why donât you come along?â
Joanna was tempted, really tempted. She enjoyed musicals and it would be