how to lay bricks, install plumbing, fit windows, and put in electrical wiring. âThere were fun moments,â Elon said.
Errol was what Kimbal described as âultra-present and very intense.â He would sit Elon and Kimbal down and lecture at them for three to four hours without the boys being able to respond. He seemed to delight in being hard on the boys and sucked the fun out of common childhood diversions. From time to time, Elon tried to convince his dad to move to America and often talked about his intentions to live in the United States later in life. Errol countered such dreams by trying to teach Elon a lesson. He sent the housekeepers away and had Elon do all the chores to let him know what it was like âto play American.â
While Elon and Kimbal declined to provide an exact recounting,they clearly experienced something awful and profound during those years with their father. They both talk about having to endure some form of psychological torture. âHe definitely has serious chemical stuff,â said Kimbal. âWhich I am sure Elon and I have inherited. It was a very emotionally challenging upbringing, but it made us who we are today.â Maye bristled when the subject of Errol came up. âNobody gets along with him,â she said. âHe is not nice to anyone. I donât want to tell stories because they are horrendous. You know, you just donât talk about it. There are kids and grandkids involved.â
When asked to chat about Elon, Errol responded via e-mail: âElon was a very independent and focused child at home with me. He loved computer science before anyone even knew what it was in South Africa and his ability was widely recognized by the time he was 12 years old. Elon and his brother Kimbalâs activities as children and young men were so many and varied that itâs difficult to name just one, as they travelled together with me extensively in S. Africa and the world at large, visiting all the continents regularly from the age of six onwards. Elon and his brother and sister were and continue to be exemplary, in every way a father could want. Iâm very proud of what Elonâs accomplished.â
Errol copied Elon on this e-mail, and Elon warned me off corresponding with his father, insisting that his fatherâs take on past events could not be trusted. âHe is an odd duck,â Musk said. But, when pressed for more information, Musk dodged. âIt would certainly be accurate to say that I did not have a good childhood,â he said. âIt may sound good. It was not absent of good, but it was not a happy childhood. It was like misery. Heâs good at making life miserableâthatâs for sure. He can take any situation no matter how good it is and make it bad. Heâs not a happy man. I donât know . . . fuck . . . I donât know how someone becomes like he is. It would just cause too much trouble to tell you any more.â Elonand Justine have vowed that their children will not be allowed to meet Errol.
When Elon was nearly ten years old, he saw a computer for the first time, at the Sandton City Mall in Johannesburg. âThere was an electronics store that mostly did hi-fi-type stuff, but then, in one corner, they started stocking a few computers,â Musk said. He felt awed right awayââIt was like, âWhoa. Holy shit!âââby this machine that could be programmed to do a personâs bidding. âI had to have that and then hounded my father to get the computer,â Musk said. Soon he owned a Commodore VIC-20, a popular home machine that went on sale in 1980. Elonâs computer arrived with five kilobytes of memory and a workbook on the BASIC programming language. âIt was supposed to take like six months to get through all the lessons,â Elon said. âI just got super OCD on it and stayed up for three days with no sleep and did the entire thing. It seemed like the most
Aj Harmon, Christopher Harmon