outgoing nature with members of his family and eventually took on the role of elder and chief instigator among them.
For a while, life inside the Musk household was quite good. The family owned one of the biggest houses in Pretoria thanks to the success of Errolâs engineering business. Thereâs a portrait of the three Musk children taken when Elon was about eight years old that shows three blond, fit children sitting next to each other on a brick porch with Pretoriaâs famous purple jacaranda trees in the background. Elon has large, rounded cheeks and a broad smile.
Then, not long after the photo was taken, the family fell apart. His parents separated and divorced within the year. Maye moved with the kids to the familyâs holiday home in Durban, on South Africaâs eastern coast. After a couple of years of this arrangement, Elon decided he wanted to live with his father. âMy father seemed sort of sad and lonely, and my mom had three kids, and he didnât have any,â Musk said. âIt seemed unfair.â Some members of Muskâs family have bought into this idea that Elonâs logical nature propelled him, while others claim that his fatherâs mother, Cora, exerted a lot of pressure on the boy. âI could not understand why he would leave this happy home I made for himâthis really happy home,â said Maye. âBut Elon is his own person.â Justine Musk, Elonâs ex-wife and the mother of his five boys, theorized that Elon identified more with the alpha male of the house and wasnât bothered by the emotional aspect of the decision. âI donât think he was particularly close with either parent,â Justine said, while describing the Musk clan overall as being cool and the opposite of doting. Kimbal later opted to live with Errol as well, saying simply that by nature a son wants to live with his father.
Whenever the topic of Errol arrives, members of Elonâs family clam up. Theyâre in agreement that he is not a pleasant man to be around but have declined to elaborate. Errol has since been remarried, and Elon has two, younger half sisters of whom heâs quite protective. Elon and his siblings seem determined not to bad-mouth Errol publicly, so as not to upset the sisters.
The basics are as follows: Errolâs side of the family has deep South African roots. The Musk clan can trace its presence in the country back about two hundred years and claim an entry in Pretoriaâs first phone book. Errolâs father, Walter Henry James Musk, was an army sergeant. âI remember him almost never talking,â Elon said. âHe would just drink whiskey and be grumpyand was very good at doing crossword puzzles.â Cora Amelia Musk, Errolâs mother, was born in England to a family famed for its intellectual genes. She embraced both the spotlight and her grandchildren. âOur grandmother had this very dominant personality and was quite an enterprising woman,â said Kimbal. âShe was a very big influence in our lives.â Elon considered his relationship with Coraâor Nana, as he called herâparticularly tight. âAfter the divorce, she took care of me quite a lot,â he said. âShe would pick me up from school, and I would hang out with her playing Scrabble and that type of thing.â
On the surface, life at Errolâs house seemed grand. He had plenty of books for Elon to read from cover to cover and money to buy a computer and other objects that Elon desired. Errol took his children on numerous trips overseas. âIt was an amazingly fun time,â said Kimbal. âI have a lot of fun memories from that.â Errol also impressed the kids with his intellect and dealt out some practical lessons. âHe was a talented engineer,â Elon said. âHe knew how every physical object worked.â Both Elon and Kimbal were required to go to the sites of Errolâs engineering jobs and learn
Dorothy Calimeris, Sondi Bruner