give your man an amazing handjob or a great blowjob or a blended stimulation orgasm, make sure that you finish it off in the right way so you do leave him speechless and completely satisfied. Don’t ruin the moment by running off and doing something that might force you both to butt heads later on.
I will say this though, if you are getting into a relationship with a man that you just met or you are giving a blowjob to somebody that you don’t know very well, please do not swallow. This is for your own safety. I base this book upon women who are in relationships and who are with partners that they trust and that they have an idea of their sexual history. That way, you know your man is in good health and that you aren’t going to contract an STI or other infection. Oral sex in general can be dangerous, especially swallowing so it is best to hold off on any oral play until you know the man a bit better. Be sure that you are always staying safe and keeping your best interests at heart. You have to be your top priority.
Conclusion
Well, shy girl, there you have it; another guide complete and another topic you can perfect. Hopefully this book has brought you some comfort in the topics of handjobs and blowjobs and you now feel a lot more comfortable performing each of these acts on your man. Hopefully now you feel like you are capable of bringing him amazing pleasure and total satisfaction in the bedroom, all from using just your two hands and your mouth. Most of all, hopefully these small tips and tricks help you out personally, to not only become a more confident and sexual woman, but for your man to reciprocate as well.
Sometimes, men can be oblivious in the bedroom and they are more often to give pleasure after they receive it themselves. If you are craving and dying for him to go down on you and for him to give you the stimulation that you want, you may have to make a move first and show him the goods before he is willing to do the same to you. If you want your man to reciprocate and to give you the pleasure that you give to him, you might need to be the one to make the initiative and first step. Please keep in mind, your pleasure is just as important as his. Even though you might be able to give him something that he has never had before, that will bring you some satisfaction in knowing that you can do that for him but at the same time, it is nice to feel that pleasure within your own body. If you aren’t getting yours too, then something needs to change.
If your sex life was lacking before and you and your partner needed a reconnect, hopefully this book helped you to get that back on track. Sometimes, we all need a refresher course to brush up on our skills or to bump them up to the next level. Also, sometimes we need a little push in the right direction to get everything back to the way it was. If this was the case for you, hopefully this book helped you to be able and more importantly, to want to touch your man in a way that brought him pleasure so he would do the same to you. It’s important for you two to reconnect when times are tough and to work things out.
It’s natural for our sex lives to take a dip and we need to make sure that we are on top of it and that we fix it immediately. Sex is such an important and vital part of a relationship; it is what separates us from friends and lovers and what brings us close together. It is the time when we are able to connect on such a deep level and it makes us feel good. Touching your man to bring him to climax or to use your mouth to do so, creates a level of intimacy that sex cannot bring. It makes either party feel even more vulnerable than usual. Plus, it is a nice break from sex and forces you to do something else to him for once. It breaks routine and sometimes, we all need that.
It’s important that you not only know how to please your man in bed but that you feel comfortable doing so. It’s hard to sometimes feel confident or special