How to Give a Man Oral Sex Like a Pro by Desiree Dean Read Free Book Online

have all at least seen what ejaculate looks like and it is easy to figure out that it has a slimy texture. However, when it is in your mouth and you are swallowing it, you don’t really get the texture so much. The taste is overpowering and what you focus on the most. As soon as your man finishes, you swallow right away and you practically never really feel the ejaculate down your throat. It just feels like you are swallowing your own saliva. Granted, if you are focused on it and you pay attention to it, you will feel it but when you are in the moment and you just gave your man a fantastic orgasm, I think the last thing you are going to be thinking about is the texture of his come.
    Now, this is a given but I feel as though it should be touched upon anyways because there are some weird urban legends that go around and it’s best to just get it out of the way rather than keep it as the elephant in the room and beat around the bush. (Idiom central over here.) If you do decide to swallow your man’s ejaculate, please know that you cannot get pregnant from doing so. I know some women may think otherwise because they read some instance that isn’t true and yadda yadda but no, you cannot. You can only get pregnant if the sperm travels through the body via the vagina and reaches the end of the cervix and travels to an egg, fertilizes it and well you know the rest. Swallow away and swallow as often as you want because you aren’t getting pregnant from this method. There, now that’s out of the way…
    If you know that swallowing just isn’t going to be your thing, and before you even dare to resort to spitting, I have another option for you that is just as sexy and one that your man will really enjoy. When you know that your man is close to orgasm, tell him that you want him to come all over you. Let him ejaculate on your breasts, on your back or, if you are really breaking the barrier, your face. Even though this sounds as though he is debasing you and that you are diminished to nothing more than a speck of dirt, it is not that way. In fact, you have even more power over him allowing him to do something like this to you. He knows that he should play it cool and not go overboard with it. He knows better. This is a fantasy for a lot of men but they never know how to go about talking about it so if you are the one to bring it up, it will take the pressure off of him. Making one of his fantasies come true and being able to finish him off right? Bonus!
    It’s obvious that I have been tiptoeing around the subject of spitting and it is because I don’t think it is necessary. I have a firm belief that it is insulting to spit and offensive to your man. Think of it in these terms; say your man was going down on you and the situation was reversed and you were the one to ejaculate. Then, after you were done, your man left the room to go spit in the toilet and perhaps also rinse his mouth out or even brush his teeth. Then he came back to you to cuddle. His absence in that moment speaks volumes, even though it shouldn’t. It makes you feel like you did something wrong or that there is a part of you that he finds so repulsive, he has to leave the room to get rid of it. It would hurt your feelings and it would make you want to speak up and tell him that if he is just going to spit it out, he should not even bother doing it in the first place. It would make you feel pretty awful, right? Now imagine how he would feel after you just gave him the ride of his life and now you are rushing to the bathroom to spit something of his out. Although this is simply my opinion and you obviously don’t have to follow it, at least think about it before you ultimately decide to do it. You might change your mind as well. Remember, actions speak louder than words so no matter how hard to try to convince him that his taste isn’t offensive and that you just don’t want to swallow it, keep in mind the angle from which he is viewing this from. 
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