perplexed by the proposition.
âWhatâs the problem?â the medical examiner wondered.
Don Rogersâs body . . . it was already gone.
CHAPTER 10
EVERY RECOVERING ALCOHOLIC KNOWS thereâs a sleeping dragon, a beast, hibernating inside his or her soul. Even if the person finds sobriety, dries out and goes on to lead a productive, alcohol-free life, one day at a time, that beast sits, patiently waiting, ready and willing to breathe fire once again when a vulnerable moment arises. Since Vonlee had returned to the upper Midwest to live with Don and Billie Jean, she not only started drinking again, but sheâd rattled the sleeping dragon wide awake.
While she had been back in Tennessee at her grandmotherâs house, Vonlee later explained, she had given everything up. Vonlee had walked away, she said, from a âthree-hundred-thousand-dollar town houseâ that her old boyfriend was willing to sign over to her in place of her going home to sober up. While living inside that bubble consisting of Denver and Chicago, and running an escort service, Vonlee considered that she had âhit [her] bottom.â
âI was going to meetings. I was going to therapy. I was doing all of these things while back home.â And through that, Vonlee said, she had âmade an understanding with God,â her higher power. Sheâd pleaded to God while immersed in her addiction that she wanted out of it all. âOkay, God, this is my bottom . . . ,â Vonlee had told herself while ripping and running in Chicago before taking off for home. âAnd if this is not my bottom? Please, God, take me there.â
The chaos her life had taken on since moving in with Billie Jean was perhaps that new bottom she had asked God for, Vonlee began to think as those days and long nights at the casino carried on. Maybe Chicago and Denver were not enough? Perhaps God wanted Vonlee to see another layer of living hell that would finally shake her into believing she had a drinking problem to begin with and that things could not possibly get any worse.
With Don dead, the police asking Billie questions, and Vonlee being around it all, feeling guilty and a part of what seemed to be, at the least, some moral culpability in Donâs death, Vonlee asked herself, Is this it? Is this my bottom?
One of the main issues for Vonlee was that she had been blind drunk herself on the night they returned from the casino to find Don on the kitchen floor.
If I wasnât drunk, would he have had a chance? Vonlee wondered now.
The guilt ate at her.
âI was literally in another world while all of this was going on,â Vonlee said. âI made an appointment to go to the psychiatrist because I just couldnât deal with it.â
Donâs kids, even Billie Jeanâs, were asking Vonlee what was wrong with her. She seemed so distraught. âDid you know Don that well, Vonlee? You are really taking this hard.â
Anytime somebody said something to Vonlee, she broke down. She couldnât handle hearing Donâs name.
âSomeone would say, âHow well did you know Don?â and I would bust out bawling like a child.â
There was a time a few days after Donâs death when all Vonlee could do was pop Xanax her psychiatrist had put her on and wash those pills down with vodka.
âIâd get up off the couch only to take more Xanax, have a drink, and then [Iâd] pass back out.â
She couldnât believe what had happenedâDon dying the way he had.
But if Don was dead when Billie Jean and Vonlee entered the house, why all the guilt? Why was Vonlee harboring so much responsibility for Donâs death? What wasnât Vonlee sharing with anyone?
Billie Jean saw Vonlee on the couch one morning. âLook at you!â she said. âPull your damn self together.â
âIâm . . . Iâm . . . ,â Vonlee tried to say.
Billie Jean got down to Vonleeâs eye level, put