okay.â
Mom approached her and said, âI need to see what you have, honey.â Mom gently pulled Debiâs coat open. Stuffed into the arms of the coat and under her shirt, down the front of her pants, and even into her bra, were plastic bags. Mom helped her pull them out, counting as she went: twenty-eight, ranging from the small, lightweight bags they give you at supermarkets to carry your apples to the larger ones you get when they ask âWill that be paper or plastic?â Apparently Debi is the unofficial plastic bag collector for the North Neighborhood Community Center.
âWhat are all these for?â Mom asked Debi.
Debi didnât answer right away. âI need dem.â
Mom asked, âWhat for?â
Debi said, âTo go with me ⦠my bed.â
âYour bed?â Mom asked.
âUnder,â Debi answered.
Mom followed Debi downstairs and twenty minutes later came back upstairs carrying a huge armful of plastic bags, hundreds and hundreds of them, some covered in dust bunnies and all of them mashed together, wrinkled up into a giant ball. Debi must have been bringing them home every day.
Cindy said sarcastically, âWell, everybody needs a hobby.â
Mom gave Cindy a dirty look, but Debi said, âYeth, hoppy good,â and laughed.
Mom said, âThere isnât enough space in your bedroom, Debi, for so many of these bags. Weâll have to get rid of a few.â
Debi kind of nodded and mostly just stared at the floor.
But the plastic bag collection wasnât all Mom found. While pulling out the bags, Mom also discovered twenty-three library books, ranging from kidsâ picture books to three volumes, A, B, and D, of the World Book encyclopedia.
Mom asked, âDo you have a library card?â
Debi answered, âIt okay ⦠donât need.â
Debi somehow managed to steal all these books, getting them through the book detector machines at the downtown public library during field trips there with her Learning Skills group.
Mom said, âActually, Debi, you need to check books out when you borrow them from the library.â
Debi said, âNo, they free.â
Mom said, âTheyâre free to borrow , Debi.â
Debi answered, âNo borrow ⦠keep âem ⦠I like âem.â
Mom sighed and said, âNo, Debi, we have to return these.â
âDat okay,â Debi said. âDey got more.â
Iâm not sure Momâs efforts to explain to Debi the concept of a lending library made a lot of sense to Debi, but in the end she said, âIt okay, Linny ⦠I okay.â
Like I said, our family is making a new normal because of Debi.
And Rusty is part of this too. Rusty has become the family dog. Well, more truthfully, Paulâs dog, although Debi doesnât seem to mind or notice. Rusty and Paul wrestle all over the house with Rusty barking and wagging his tail, jumping and scratching and biting Paul in ways that leave little red streaks on his arms and hands but never break the skin. Paul gives as good as he gets, tossing Rusty off him and slapping him around in ways that make Rusty more and more excited and playful.
Paul has Rusty trained really well. They can be fighting, rolling around, looking like they might kill each other, and then Paul just says, âRusty, sit,â with a certain tone in his voice. Immediately, Rusty will plant his butt on the floor. If Paul commands, âStay,â he can walk away and Rusty wonât budge. When Paul says, âOkay,â Rusty will come running back up to him, wagging his tail.
Paul has even trained Rusty not to attack and bite the wheels of my wheelchair anymore. From his very first day here, the dog has thought of my wheelchair as a dangerous satanic object that requires constant monitoring and attention. Despite Paulâs training, whenever Rusty comes into a room where I am, he dips his head low, staring with scary intensity