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regular basis. Our culture seems to
focus on making women feel sexy, but in my world, the guys get to be sexy and
feel sexy—and we are happy to spread that feeling around. When a man is getting
all that attention and admiration from women, he feels not so much obligated,
but motivated, to give it back tenfold. Seducing a woman with only your eyes is
a skill that is not easily learned, but it really helps onstage. Most women
will sit in their chairs forever before getting up to tip. Eye contact and a
warm smile are the best lures. They make a big, muscular, good-looking man seem
down to earth and approachable. Most women feel that the guys are out of their
league so you have to help them loosen up and feel more confident.
    Each woman needs to feel as if she’s the only girl out of
all the girls in the room, better yet the only girl in the world. She will be
nervous at first, but if you break your attention from the crowd for even a
couple of seconds and focus on her, she will feel welcome to approach you.
Sometimes, while onstage during my performance, I will look at a girl I’m
attracted to and say hi. She can’t hear me over the crowd, but she will be able
read my lips. I follow that with a quick smile and she knows that, out of that
packed crowd of women, I chose her. She now will probably come to my stage and
tip me, maybe run her hand down my chest and abs. If I see that look of “wow”
in her eyes, I will pull her in close and compliment her. Something quick and
to the point, like “You’re so pretty” or “Come find me later.” After I’m done
onstage, I will immediately write my personal number on my business card and
secretly give it to her as I walk by her table.
    A woman once told me, “These guys get even more attractive
after you talk to them.” So a conversation is necessary as soon as you get a
chance. I never talk about myself. I always keep the focus on the woman.
Everyone wants to think they can capture your interest. I say something like, “So
what do you do for fun?” or “Tell me something interesting about yourself.”
These questions will also give you future date ideas. Honesty has always worked
best for me if I want to date a woman I meet at the club. But if I’m just
working for tips, I can’t always be completely honest. For example, if I’m
dating a girl and a customer asks if I’m single, I have to lie. If she knows I’m
seeing someone else, the spell is broken. It’s all about making a woman feel
sexy and special and creating a sexual charge for her. Nothing kills that
faster for a woman than thinking you are in love with another woman.
    One guy always said, “Nineteen is my favorite age. Why?
Because a nineteen-year-old is old enough to do what she wants and young enough
to be dumb enough to do it.” We had an ongoing joke over the years, around
March, April and May, when these really hot girls who had just turned eighteen
would start showing up at the club in droves. I would always joke with them
that we were going to prom together. It broke the ice and a scared newbie
became another score.
     
    The Acts
    Lots of acts have been around for years. Some acts are
choreographed and require dance skills, and others are simple and undemanding.
How do we get them? We buy some, and some are handed down. Some are made up
from current songs or movies. The rookies usually are given an old, crappy act
to start with. A dancer must try out a few acts before getting a true feel for
what he can do and what he is comfortable with.
    One of the old standbys, especially for guys who can’t
dance, is the bed act. A bed is set up in the middle of the stage, and a girl who
has paid for the stage dance is placed on the bed and under the sheets. The bed
is covered in red silk sheets. There are red curtains in the background, and
the dancer is wearing a red silk robe. He basically comes out to a slow song
and acts very seductive until he takes off the robe, exposing the fact that he is
wearing