guys are really crazy. And then you wonder why Iâm getting high. I want to get high right now. I donât understand why you guys are telling me this. I donât understand you people.â
I was in total shock. My mind was racing a mile a minute. They were telling me this whole crazy story. Was it true? I didnât really look like Charlie. I didnât have any idea what they were talking about. My head was rocking. I couldnât take any more. I had to go to sleep. I told my parents I was going to bed and I didnât care what they were doing. Finally they went back upstairs.
I had no idea why they decided to tell me Greg was my father then. They must have been in shock, tooâseeing me so high that they felt they had to rationalize the way we were living. Maybe they felt guilty because of what I did. Maybe they were thinking they had to tell me the truth so I would stop doing drugs and get back on the right track.
The only thing I could think of was that my words hurt my father so bad because he loved me so much. A day didnât go by in my fatherâs life that I didnât tell him I loved himâeven when I thought Charlie was my real fatherânot one day. I told him I loved him at least ten times a day. And every night before he went to bed, or before I went to bed, Iâd kiss him and say, âI love you. I love you, Dad. I love you so much.â
So for him to see me highâand for me to be screaming, âItâs your fault. I hate youââwas the breaking point and he had to tell me the truth. But at that moment I didnât care. I hated him. And he made me hate him even more the following day.
I crashed on the couch in the basement that night. I woke up the next morning and I heard them upstairs in the kitchen. Then I started remembering everything. I was really scared. I knew I was so dead. I didnât want to go upstairs because I didnât want to deal with it.
Then I heard, âLinda, get up here.â Oh, my God. My father.
I went upstairs and he gave me the whole speech about drugs.
âYouâre punished. Youâre not allowed out of the house. Youâre not allowed to hang out with those people. Weâre going to find out who you were with.â
I couldnât get a word in. I had no idea what was going to happen, but I had to play it cool.
âWhatever.â
I knew I was in trouble. I thought the kids I was with were in trouble. But neverânot for one minuteâdid I think he was going to do what he did.
My parents knew who I hung out with, so my mother called the mother of one of the girls in the group.
âMy daughter was with your daughter last night and they smoked pot.â My mother didnât know for sure, but she figured she could get some information.
âNot my daughter, she donât do that.â There really wasnât anything they could do to the girl, anyway, so my mother just yelled and screamed at the lady.
Then my father went out with some of his crew and somehow they found out that I had been smoking pot with my best friend, Greg Vacca. I loved him then, and I still love him. We used to hang out every day. I guess you could say he was my first boyfriend.
Next thing I knew, my father came back to the house.
âGuess what? You want to smoke pot? Now your friends pay the price, and you donât have friends anymore. Youâre not allowed to hang out with them anymore.â
I started screaming. âWhat do you mean, my friends âpay the priceâ? What did you do? What did you do?â
âDonât worry about it. Itâs not for you to know.â
âWhat do you mean, itâs not for me to know? I want to know what you did.â
Of course, I cared about the other people, but I didnât care about them as much as I cared about Greg. My father knew that. So, who did he go after? He went after the guy I hung out with the most. Greg was my buddy, and he