The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus by Violet Blue Read Free Book Online
Authors: Violet Blue
heightens, all the muscles and ligaments begin to contract, creating a delightful tension. The suspensory ligament shortens and pulls the glans inward, toward the pubic bone, and it remains beneath the hood until orgasm. The end of the round ligament tugs on the inner lips at one end and the uterus on the other, creating more pleasure and involving the uterus in the orgasmic process.
At this point, muscle tension is building: the clitoral tissues and perineum are hypersensitive, as is the skin on the face, neck, abdomen, buttocks, hands, and feet. Blood pressure and heart rate are increased. Her entire body is awash in sexual chemicals, and this potent cocktail is making blues bluer and lights brighter, all while sending messages of “more, more!” At the peak, muscular tension explodes in a series of short, rhythmic contractions. The walls of the vagina, and all the muscles on the pelvic floor, contract strongly and rhythmically, causing intense pleasure. This is orgasm, the standing ovation of the clitoral system, and with collaboration between brain and body, a woman can have several, or even several different kinds.
It’s sexy to see her get off. Her labia get all fat and red with blood and her face flushes and it drives me crazy! It’s probably my favorite thing.
The G-spot and Ejaculation
There’s nothing better than coming in the face of your loved one.
Both women and men have an identical ring of spongy erectile tissue surrounding the urethra (where urine leaves the body). Located inside the vagina, the urethra is a tube about two inches long, running from the bladder to the urethral opening. This ring of tissue—the famed G-spot—is located on the front wall of the vagina, toward the belly button, roughly two inches inside. It is an integral part of the clitoral system.
When a woman is unaroused, the sponge is relaxed and difficult to feel. But during arousal, the sponge swells and hardens, and it can be touched by inserting a finger and stroking with a “come hither” motion. Some women find that once this sponge is firm with arousal, touch and vibration are delightful, while others dislike the sensation altogether. Often the discomfort stems from an urgent feeling of having to pee, which can be too intense for enjoyment, and some women find it puts a damper on their arousal. However, according to women who flush and glow with happiness at the mere mention of the G-spot, the sensation of bladder urgency is false and just a gateway to your mind-numbing G-spot orgasm. Different strokes for different folks, I say; follow the rules of what feels good.
During orgasm, some women ejaculate a clear fluid from the urethral sponge. Embedded in the G-spot’s spongy erectile tissue are up to thirty or more tiny prostate-like glands that produce an alkaline fluid similar to male prostatic fluid. These glands are referred to as periurethral glands, and they are credited as the source of female ejaculation. Some women and their partners find ejaculation very exciting, while others (or their lovers) may be alarmed. If you (or your female partner) ejaculates and you feel uncomfortable about it, just remember that something that felt really good was happening—so good that you woke up the urethral sponge, and it wanted to feel good, too.
Some women ejaculate a little (a few teaspoons of fluid), and some women ejaculate a lot (up to a cup or more). When you know you’re going to be giving her head and she’s prone to ejaculation, think about what you plan to do when she comes—because she’s going to come on (and in) your mouth. If it’s something you’re just not sure about, or you don’t find it erotic, let her know before you begin cunnilingus. Tell her that you’d like her to give you a tap on the head right before she’s about to come, so that you can discreetly move your hand in front of your face when she begins to gush. However, the problem with this is that you’ll
At this point, muscle tension is building: the clitoral tissues and perineum are hypersensitive, as is the skin on the face, neck, abdomen, buttocks, hands, and feet. Blood pressure and heart rate are increased. Her entire body is awash in sexual chemicals, and this potent cocktail is making blues bluer and lights brighter, all while sending messages of “more, more!” At the peak, muscular tension explodes in a series of short, rhythmic contractions. The walls of the vagina, and all the muscles on the pelvic floor, contract strongly and rhythmically, causing intense pleasure. This is orgasm, the standing ovation of the clitoral system, and with collaboration between brain and body, a woman can have several, or even several different kinds.
It’s sexy to see her get off. Her labia get all fat and red with blood and her face flushes and it drives me crazy! It’s probably my favorite thing.
The G-spot and Ejaculation
There’s nothing better than coming in the face of your loved one.
Both women and men have an identical ring of spongy erectile tissue surrounding the urethra (where urine leaves the body). Located inside the vagina, the urethra is a tube about two inches long, running from the bladder to the urethral opening. This ring of tissue—the famed G-spot—is located on the front wall of the vagina, toward the belly button, roughly two inches inside. It is an integral part of the clitoral system.
When a woman is unaroused, the sponge is relaxed and difficult to feel. But during arousal, the sponge swells and hardens, and it can be touched by inserting a finger and stroking with a “come hither” motion. Some women find that once this sponge is firm with arousal, touch and vibration are delightful, while others dislike the sensation altogether. Often the discomfort stems from an urgent feeling of having to pee, which can be too intense for enjoyment, and some women find it puts a damper on their arousal. However, according to women who flush and glow with happiness at the mere mention of the G-spot, the sensation of bladder urgency is false and just a gateway to your mind-numbing G-spot orgasm. Different strokes for different folks, I say; follow the rules of what feels good.
During orgasm, some women ejaculate a clear fluid from the urethral sponge. Embedded in the G-spot’s spongy erectile tissue are up to thirty or more tiny prostate-like glands that produce an alkaline fluid similar to male prostatic fluid. These glands are referred to as periurethral glands, and they are credited as the source of female ejaculation. Some women and their partners find ejaculation very exciting, while others (or their lovers) may be alarmed. If you (or your female partner) ejaculates and you feel uncomfortable about it, just remember that something that felt really good was happening—so good that you woke up the urethral sponge, and it wanted to feel good, too.
Some women ejaculate a little (a few teaspoons of fluid), and some women ejaculate a lot (up to a cup or more). When you know you’re going to be giving her head and she’s prone to ejaculation, think about what you plan to do when she comes—because she’s going to come on (and in) your mouth. If it’s something you’re just not sure about, or you don’t find it erotic, let her know before you begin cunnilingus. Tell her that you’d like her to give you a tap on the head right before she’s about to come, so that you can discreetly move your hand in front of your face when she begins to gush. However, the problem with this is that you’ll