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oodles of orgasm-inducing oral action. The most com-
mon is for a woman to lie on her back, legs spread apart and knees bent, with her partner on their knees, bent over and down. Putting one or two pillows under her buttocks, shoulders, or neck, or holding her legs up to- ward her head can help to make the vulva more easily accessible to you. Such tactics also help to prevent her body from arching as she becomes more aroused, which could change the angle of stimulation, making it less effective and more uncomfortable for the performer. Another position in- volves the partners lying one on top of the other, facing opposite ways, with the active partner’s head curved inward to provide lip-on-lip action, though this can be much more limiting.
     

Sexual Health Considerations
     
Several sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can be spread during oral sex, primarily herpes, genital warts, chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea, and HIV. Oral sex is considered a high-risk sexual behavior for HIV trans- mission, especially if a woman is menstruating. There are several things you can do to protect yourself from infection when going down on her:
im Don’t brush or floss your teeth for at least two hours before performing oral sex on somebody. Such oral-hygiene activities can cause cuts or sores in the mouth, raising the risk of contracting an STI. Use a mild mouthwash if you’re worried about being kissable.

im Consider using a dental dam, e.g., Glyde, Lixx, or Good Vibrations brands. The barrier can be held in place over her vulva with your hands while you go to town. The Dondam is a dental dam that you can stick to your face, allowing you to perform hands-free!
     
     
Trying a new position is always good for novelty’s sake and for spicing things up. Here are some other possible positions for cunnilingus:
The woman can stand while her partner crouches down to plea- sure her.
She can be propped up on pillows with her partner lying flat on their own stomach, arms propped on a pillow as well.
She can lie down, left leg bent, with her partner sticking their head under the back of her left knee to reach the vulva. Coming at the
clitoris from a side angle can also be done with her knees bent, legs pulled up.
The woman can lie on her back as her partner grabs her pelvis or but- tocks and pulls up. A variation of this involves draping her legs over her partner’s shoulders.
She can straddle her lover’s face. Facing her partner’s feet allows her to stimulate her lover’s genitals with her hands or mouth. (Note: This position becomes the famous “69” or “soixante-neuf ” when she performs oral sex as well!)
As with manual stimulation, you want to hold off on going for the gold right away. Ease into action by kissing and massaging her inner thighs and groin. Kiss and lick her entire genital area, allowing yourself to salivate copiously, before finally moving to the clitoris. As you work your way to her “love button,” pant deeply, allowing your warm breath to rhythmically beat against her vulva. The heat will have a yummy effect, with the sensations and the sound of your aroused-beyond-belief breath- ing turning her on even more. She’ll love knowing that you’re so into her
—and her genitals!
Once you’ve enjoyed all of this, go nuts with the following exercise. Feel free to take it in stages or to do all of it in one session. There’s no rush. With any success, there will surely be encore performances. So make it your number-one goal to please her, and then relish the reactions. You may find that steps 1 and 2 are all it takes for her to climax and be sexually satisfied. Still, be sure to mix things up from time to time by trying out all the steps and tips. Versatility is a must in clitoral play, and a suave lover is able to adapt to a woman’s needs instead of simply sticking with the same move on every occasion, even if it’s tried-and-true.
� EXERCISE 2.4: Ultimate Lip Service
Gently part her vaginal lips and