where the servants lived. The Raskobs had their memories of parties, meetings with the Democratic National Committee, and visits from presidential nominee Governor Al Smith, for whom Raskob was campaign manager. When the Lindberghsâ baby
was
kidnapped the next March, the Raskobs knew they had done the right thing in moving to a less accessible home.
A year later, the abbot of the Norbertine order of Catholic priests purchased Archmere for $300,000 and opened a boysâ prep school with an enrollment of twenty-two students. Archmere expanded its student body and built more and more buildings, always adhering to its motto,
Pietate et Scientia
(By Holiness and Knowledge).
And so in the sixties the sons of a once-poor carpenter attended Archmere. Tommy was not only a superior student, he was student council president and a star on Archmereâs football team. He was undeniably his parentsâ favorite child, quiet and conservative like his father, hardworking, and disciplined. Father Thomas A. Hagendorf, one of his teachers at Archmere Academy, recalled that âThomas was a shining star.â
Tommy always seemed to do everything firstâand bestâbut Louie, two years younger, didnât resent his big brother. Rather, he idolized him. Tommy was good to him, someone he could always go to for advice. They each had distinctive personalities and a different circle of friends. Louie was the charmer who could work a roomful of strangers and leave with a bunch of new friends. He already had the attributes that would one day give him the Midas touch.
The priests at Archmere were nervous about the effect the sixtieswould have on the adolescent boys they supervised. One headmaster wrote with relief, âThrough the anxious, emotional, and intellectual years of the sixties, Archmere kept to a sane course, adhering to its philosophy of teaching religious, academic, and moral fundamentals, while at the same time improving the quality of its course offerings.â
The Capanos had always invited their parish priests, especially their beloved Father Roberto Balducelli, who had been pastor at St. Anthonyâs for twenty-five years, home for dinner or for weekends at the shore, and the Archmere priests were brought into the family, too.
As always, the boysâ friends were welcome in the Capano home. Blair Mahoney, whose father was Dave Mahoney of the Four Aces, the top-ten vocal group whose records swept America in the early to mid-fifties, was one of Tomâs best friends. While the Four Aces were traveling the country singing âTell Me Whyâ and âStranger in Paradise,â Blair virtually lived with the Capanos during summers at Wildwood, and in Wilmington, too, when he and Tommy went to Archmere. âMrs. Capano was like a mother to me,â Mahoney recalled. âI wasnât the easiest young man to manage. She did great keeping me in line.â
Although Archmere was then strictly a school for young men, coeducational dances were held there, and an invitation to attend was much to be desired by teenage girls in Delaware and New Jersey. Tommy was especially close to his cousin Donna, his aunt Mary Rizzoâs daughter, and he often invited her and her girlfriends to the Archmere dances. The hall where the dances were held was fairly prosaic and it was the cachet of Archmere that drew them. That, and Tommy Capano.
âHe was so handsome then,â Donnaâs friend Emily Hensel remembered. âHe was just about anything a teenaged girl could wantâgood looking, popular, and a football star. I can close my eyes even today and see Tommy dancing on the floor. For some reason, the song I hear in my head when I think of Tommy is âTime Wonât Let Me,â by the Outsiders. It was
his
songâat least in my own memory.â
Tommy was always known as the good brother, the dependable brother. Marguerite and Lou were proud of all of their boys, but Tommy was the one
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