itâs still mild. Your fix is the training and diet that youâll find in part 3. These programs will minimize your estrogen production and boost testosterone to ward off any unwanted side effects. Combine that with dietary changes that will keep you away from estrogen-producing foods, and youâll be feeling and looking like more of a man.
8. Men Turned into Boys
The negative effects of high estrogen arenât just limited to confidence and appearance. Letâs take it a step farther. A lack of testosterone or a surplus of estrogen can strongly impact your general psychological and emotional states.
The idea of being weepy, whiny, or wussy probably isnât appealing to you. And weâre not talking about how you feel when you watch Brianâs Song . (If you donât well up during that, you have no heart.) But if, like most guys, you donât have your estrogen under control, youâre headed toward a life of tears.
Your high estrogen will affect you emotionally, screwing with you on every level. Joking aside, this isnât about crying at Hallmark commercialsâitâs about a serious hormonal imbalance that can affect things from basic decision making to depression and thoughts of suicide. In fact, according to researchers in Australia, men with low testosterone and high estrogen are three times more likely to suffer from depression.
9. Fertility Issues
Legacy.
As humans, procreation is one of our strongest drives. Itâs a point of pride: you are not only the sum of your lifeâs workâyou are also reflected by your offspring. And you directly impact and influence the lives of the humans you create.
But what if you couldnât produce children because of a problem you could easily prevent? Thatâs the reality for any man who suffers from low testosterone.
At this point in your life, having children might not be a great concern. Or maybe youâre not interested at all. But whether you have children should be a conscious decision, not one that is thrust on you by a hormonal imbalance that you could easily avoid.
Research has found that men with low testosterone are more likely to suffer from varicocelesâa medical condition in which the veins in your testicles are enlarged. While having big balls might sound like a good thing, in reality this condition is linked to infertility.
One of the reasons you could suffer from low testosterone is because you have a lack of something called luteinizing hormone. This hormone affects the production of both testosterone and sperm. While this is reversible with treatment, even temporary sterility is frighteningly serious. With hormonal adjustment, you can right the ship quickly.
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BECOME THE HERO . . . NOW
Weâre going to go out on a limb and say that nothing we just shared sounds appealing to you. But this is just the beginning of how youâve been misled by the fitness industry and why the advice youâve been given is directly leading to some of the problems we mentioned. And in the next chapter, youâll learn exactly how to make sense of all the misinformation and to identify the myths that are corrupting your body and your hormones.
THE SEVEN TRAITS OF THE ALPHA
âLeadership consists not in degrees of techniques but in traits of character . . . and it imposes on both leader and follower alike the burdens of self-restraint.â
â LEWIS H. LAPHAM
B efore you move any farther in this book, itâs important that you understand whatâs on the table. As weâve mentioned before, our goal is to completely redefine what it means to be the Alpha. We want to strip away all the negative connotations about the Alpha being cocky, the associations with meatheads, and the belief that Alphas are primarily pickup artists.
When people think of the Alpha, they generally think of someone along the lines of Fight Club âs Tyler Durden, who is a quintessential embodiment of the