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necking and heavy petting. Partners can cuddle in the spoon position with the inside spoon’s head resting on the outside spoon’s arm.
    And there’s no rule that says that the man/taller/dominant/older person has to be the outside spoon. Regardless of size or weight, age or income, everyone has rights to the inside position. The same holds true for cuddling—a man’s head need not always remain above hers. My gay and lesbian clients know about egalitarian spooning; it’s time for the rest of the world to get enlightened. Let no spoon go unpolished.
    Spooning can also teach your body a lesson or two. If you participate in the same cardio class over and over, or if you use the same weight equipment at the gym every day, your body adapts and learns how to use as few muscles as possible. As a high school coach, I encouraged my athletes to cross-train—to overcome the way a body learns to do more with less. As a sex coach, I want you to do more with more! Spooning—or anything sexual done on your non-dominant side—will benefit you because it forces you to explore with your non-dominant arm—sexual cross-training, if you will. Non-dominant spooning places your weaknesses on top and allows you to work for a more balanced nervous system. You will use a different part of your brain when you explore with your non-dominant side, and it will force you to take more time to adjust. Likewise, more time to adjust means more time exploring, and when it comes time to switch positions in the future, make sure your partner has the same opportunity to cross-train.
    From the spooning position, let your hands explore. You can even play that game where you trace letters, numbers, and words on each other’s back and have them guess what you wrote.
    For those of you who store your silverware like most people—arranged in stacks—there is another form of spooning in which one person lies on the bottom, and the other spoons point-for-point on top. Again, it doesn’t matter who chooses to be which spoon, but if the bottom person looks left, the top one should look left too, matching every joint and organ possible. How long you stay in position is up to the bottom spoon.

     
    POSITION 1: Headers and Footers
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    This position may be one of the strangest—and one of the most enjoyable—positions in this book, and I have placed it at the beginning for several reasons. In line with the sexual cross-training metaphor, it challenges the three most traditional positions: missionary, woman on top, and rear-entry. It forces your body, brain, and genitals to work differently, and that allows for more time in bed. The position prevents rapid and deep thrusts, two things that can lead to early ejaculation—and a typical end to lovemaking—for many men. Its originality will often evoke giggles and play-by-play coaching and conversation, several things that too often go missing from the bedroom.
    Headers and Footers—when both partners are supported by pillows, a headboard/footboard, or both—encourages eye-to-eye, face-to-face, hands-to-genital sex unlike most positions we know. It is for many people who like watching their partner masturbate, except that they are there to assist as the human dildo or cock-sleeve. Attempt this position by itself several times—on a bed or loveseat, in a tight hallway, or even in a hammock—because, again, perfect practice makes perfect.
In a bed, or on any comfortable surface with pillows for each person (about six feet apart), sit down with your legs crossed.
     
Sit face-to-face on top of him and help him get his penis into you. Wrap your legs around him and indulge in the embrace.
     

     
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After staying in position for as long as you both want, lift her up slightly (or wiggle her side-to-side), so you can move your feet out in front of you. Bend your knees and bring your feet towards you in a sit-up position.
     
Offer him your upturned arms for support, as you both lower back