to the bed.
Place your down-turned arms in hers, and slowly lower each other to the pillows behind you.
As you lie back, bend your knees as well. Because of the angle of penetration, his penis should touch just underneath your clitoris and the front of the vaginal wall.
Your heads will be on pillows as you face each other, one of you against the headboard, and one against the footboard. With small rocking motions between the two of you, enough friction and penetration will occur between various parts of her vagina and the topmost portion of his penis. Both partners can hold hands, explore their own bodies, grab the sheets, or anything else that comes to mind. Recline on the pillows and remain here all morning, or until horniness sets in again. This position lends itself to mutual foot massage, and, because you are facing each other, ample conversation or a sexual fantasy exchange.
POSITION 2: Transition
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The next position puts you both where you started and allows for simple penetration with amazing results. I chose not to have you end here, as it is a delightful and romantic position in which to spend time, to play around with dirty talk, and to climax, if that is your goal.
From Headers and Footers, where both of you are on your backs, knees bent and buttocks almost touching, you can reach forward and offer him your arms. Likewise, you can grab the backs of your legs—your hamstrings—and pull yourself up. With sufficient core strength, you can sit up on your own.
Reach out for her arms, lock them at the wrist, and pull each other forward. Your buttocks will touch. Support her with your arms as you wiggle closer to each other. Perhaps, as she did, you may need to reach behind your thighs—your quadriceps—and pull yourself that way, or you too can rely on core strength to pull yourself up.
POSITION 2
POSITION 3
POSITION 3: Meet and Greet
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This position is how you started. You are on top of him, and your chest is against his. Because many women are shorter than men, your position on his lap should bring you both eye-to-eye—or close.
Reach around, and pull him towards you. You can help position his penis back inside you.
Place your knees inside or outside of hers, depending on your heights and comfort levels. This will allow for short, measured strokes.
To change the depth or angle, either partner can lean back or forth, or—assuming the surface has got enough spring to it—bounce to orgasm. I have many clients who attest to the sexual benefits of the human pogo stick. (As a side note: I hear it is a great way to tighten those sagging glutes as well.)
Crescendo
Climaxing in this position requires that you both focus on your own orgasm, while assisting your partner if possible. Instead of elevating your pelvis, you will each need to contract and release the pelvic floor, while rocking back and forth, breathing in and out from the diaphragm, and focusing on all the sensations.
This position is perfect for cupping your partner’s face and engaging in deep kisses, tongue play, or a light lip bite. You can also embrace each other, melding chest to chest, as your bodies pivot back and forth. If fingernails trailing down your back turn you on, this is an optimal position for that, as well as for ear licking and clitoral stimulation. He can grab her buttocks and elevate her, pull her towards and away from him, and even engage in spanking or ass-grabbing, if she so desires.
There is a therapeutic advantage of this position for the rapid ejaculator. If he comes, he can still make small movements that, combined with clitoral stimulation, breast fondling, or even some anal play, can bring her over the edge as well.
Bravo! Bravo!
Whether it’s a simmering sauce or a potential partnership, great things take time to develop and are worth waiting for. Before you make love to your partner’s body, enjoy hours, days, weeks, and months making love to their