had been enough for Iris: her son, Theo. Ten years laterâsheâd been forty, for Godâs sakeâsheâd discovered she was pregnant again. Sheâd sat in the front seat of the car outside the doctorâs office, as the snowflakes swirled and melted on her windshield, and wept. She cried more than she had at the news of her fatherâs death the year before. She felt betrayed by her body. Reentrenched in motherhood just as Theo needed her less and less. But abortion was illicit then, seamy, even dangerous. People she knew didnât even use the wordââI heard Mary Jo Surrey had something taken care of by a doctor on the South Sideââand she wouldnât have known how to go about it anyway. So Iris feigned excitement for Glenn, whose eyes turned dewy with the news, and as the weeks passed she waited for a miscarriage that never happened. Samantha was a calm baby who slept well, as if sensing she needed to be good to please her mother, to make herself easier to love.
As a toddler, Samantha grew increasingly shy, clinging to Iris, hiding her face. She would only go on the slide or the swings if the playground was empty, and only with Iris by her side. Even with Glenn, if Iris left the room, Samantha would collapse in a heap of tears. Iris wasnât that concerned. Sheâd been a shy child after all, and part of her liked being so desperately needed.
âItâs not normal,â Glenn said.
âSheâll grow out of it,â she said. âItâs a phase.â
âTheo wasnât like this.â
âBoys are different.â
âTake her to the doctor. Just to make sure.â
The pediatrician, old and stern Dr. Kimble, told Iris she coddled Samantha and that was the problem. âGive her less attention. Let her cry. Sheâll get over it.â
So Iris signed her up for a music class held in a Sunday school room of the Presbyterian church. Carpet squares were spaced out on the linoleum floor. A picture of a kindly Jesus holding his hand out to the Samaritan was on one wall, a constellation of Godâs eye crosses on the other. Mothers kissed their kids, told them to behave, and left. Samantha tightened her grip on her motherâs hand, pressing her body into her leg. Iris knew it was not going to go well. She knew Samantha would not settle down after she left. She knew it, yet surely the doctor knew better?
âNo Mommy go out,â Samantha said.
âIâll be right outside the door, honey. Itâs going to be fun!â
âNo Mommy go out. Sama and Mommy go home.â
âAre you going to bang on the drum? Look at that. Thatâs a tambourine. Why donât you go get it.â Iris pried her fingers loose and pushed Samantha forward. âBe a big kid like Theo, right?â
The teacher, with a helmet of tight white curls, came over and tried to usher Samantha to the circle as Iris walked quickly away. The sobs began before she got the door closed. Iris counted the seconds on her watch for two minutes before she marched back inside to the pitying eye of the teacher and swept up Samantha, who buried her burning, wet face in Irisâs neck. Dr. Kimbleâeven Glenn, for that matterâcould go to hell. What did men know of mothering? Sheâd decided to ignore everyone and let Samantha come out of her shell on her own terms.
Iris rolled slowly over onto her side to relieve her sore hip. Hogwash, she thought. The truth was a lot less flattering. She had always feared that somewhere in Samanthaâs cells, or in her limbic brain, perhaps, she knew she had been unwanted, that Iris had wished her away. And Iris wouldnât force a separation because of her own guilt. Within a year, Samantha had become an independent little creature who never seemed to need her much at all. Or maybe that was a myth Iris had spun to make herself feel sheâd been a better mother than she actually had been. Did it matter