âsigns,â a wish or a brag unwisely spoken. We can toss off a psychicâs promise of good fortune, but let the fortune-teller predict death, and a chill will fall over us. It is as though weâre trapped in a Brothers Grimm fairy tale that is grim indeed.
Good magic does descend on us in a willy-nilly fashion, in occasional visitations, in blessings that we desperately try to connect with a certain color or pair of socks or food that weâve eaten, but it canât be counted upon. It canât be controlled. It does not rush to our aid when we say certain words. It exists mainly in the world of fantasy, in holiday tales and childrenâs books. Most of us have lost any hope of being able to summon a force for good. We donât even try. Weâd be afraid to. At least, the celebrities with their red wrist cords to deflect envy and the women wearing evil eye charms have an antidote for the bad magic aimed at them. The rest of us duck and dodge.
I am about as fearful as a person can be and still get out of bed every morning. Youâve heard of the coward who died a thousand deaths? Thatâs me and not only me. Everyone Iâve loved, pets included, has also died many times. Died, been buried, and well grieved at least a dozen times a week. It only takes a second or two. I can go right on peeling potatoes, mopping the floor, snipping the heads off withered dahlias. Iâve been doing it so long that I donât pause for more than a mumble or two.
My husband says heâs going to the store for milk. Heâs dead from a car that crossed the line. Heâs taking the dog for a noonday walk. If theyâre not back in twenty minutes, heat stroke has killed the Lab. Heâs too heavy to carry home, so my husband is sitting on the curb next to the dogâs body wishing Iâd think of them and bring the car. Iâd like to encourage my friends to visit, but they wonât survive the trip. The only safe people are the ones I donât like.
As for myself, staying home cuts the odds in my favor, but anything could get me. Cancer, stroke, toxic tomatoes. The other day I was standing at the top of the stairs with my back to them and I thought, What if I backed up and fell down the stairs. It might kill me . So I didnât. But I could have. One absentminded moment and Iâd be gone. Iâve had some absentminded moments. Who wouldnât with all the death thatâs floating around?
I canât easily accept the idea that my thoughts change reality. My thoughts are all too dreary, which only goes to show just how big a lie I told the Philadelphia lawyer. I needed the magical people far more than I wanted to admit. They are the only ones who still have a technology of the sacred that can summon good magic and forestall bad magic. The rest of us donât even believe it can be done. They not only think it can be done but think it can be done better and better. I quite obviously hadnât absorbed the lessons of fairy tales well enough to believe myself safe in the world. If I wanted to be free of my irrational fears, maybe some irrational magic, a little of the dog that bit me, would be the solution. I needed some irrational belief in the good, the kind of belief that Bettelheim said healthy adults absorbed from childhood fairy tales. I couldnât go back to childhood, but I could go forward into magic. Hard-core magical people believe without doubt that the power of magic is available to us and that others can learn to use it. Luckily, they were just the people I was going to see.
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America the Magical,
I Sing of Thee
T hat I should be surprised to find so many Americans talking about magic had something to do with my own background. I was raised Southern Baptist in the days when it was a fairly mild, stripped-down version of Protestantism, long before Christians became millionaires writing about gentle Jesus coming back to napalm unbelievers. If anyone in our