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outfit, a role such as dominant or submissive—and tell your partner what it is about the fantasy that turns you on. Once you know who wants to do what, decide just how real you’d like that scenario to be. You can keep it in the realm of imagination, watching scenes in adultmovies or reading erotic stories to each other that depict the fantasies that appeal to you. This way, your fantasy is a vicarious thrill, which is both incredibly hot on its own merits and great for nervous lovers. Also, you get the delight that comes from sharing your fantasy with your sweetie—or the heat of watching their face as they watch (or read) your number one turn-on.
    You can take your fantasies a step further and bring hot talk into sex, where one partner describes the action of the fantasy in detail for the other. It’s as if you’re providing background narration as you go about your usual sex routine. You don’t have to sound like a diva or a moaning, groaning porn star to describe your fantasies during sex. Remember that your lusty listener is going to be concentrating on the content of your words, not the inflection or the quality of your voice. Allow yourself to really sink into the story, and feel free to fill up the airtime; this is one time being a motormouth is to your advantage.
    Don’t know what to say? Describe exactly what you’re doing, or what your partner is doing, in as much detail as possible. Allow your descriptions of in-the-moment sex to flower into a scene you know they’ll like. For instance, if you’re sitting on his face and simultaneously stroking his cock, describe the scene as though there were two of you doing these things to him. Voilà—instant fantasy threesome! Learn all about dirty talk, how to do it, and ideas for what to say in Chapter 6 , “Weaving a Spell.”
    Sexy Surprises
    Slow seductions and jointly-planned fantasies are among life’s exquisite pleasures, but surprising your sweetiewith something you know they’d like makes for an unforgettable sexual tryst. Make sure your partner has some idea that something’s coming. Check in to make sure they’re not exhausted, having a bad day, or will wish they’d showered before seeing you. Plan ahead for a successful surprise. Shop, get keys, wear the right outfit (or nothing at all).
    â€¢       Surprise your partner with a light erotic treat such as an “aphrodisiac” dinner or a full-body erotic massage, or read a sexy story (possibly one with your favorite fantasy elements included).
    â€¢       Slip them a note saying what you want to do with them later. Then do it.
    â€¢       Leave a sexy present hinting at what’s to come—tuck your panties into their pocket, pass them a note with instructions, leave an erotic picture where they’ll find it, or bookmark an erotic story you want them to read.
    â€¢       Surprise them with aggressive sex, or by enacting one of their fantasy sex acts (such as anal sex).
    â€¢       If you live together, greet your partner when they get home wearing a fantasy outfit you know they’ll like, or have one prepared for them to change into. You can be in lingerie, a schoolgirl outfit, housecleaning in the nude, “caught” getting out of the shower (or watching porn, reading a dirty book, doing what you’re not supposed to).
    â€¢       Change your appearance in a sexy way, by wearing erotic undergarments or shaving your genitals. Try going out on a date wearing no underwear, and tell your partner during dinner.
    â€¢       Use any of the techniques in later chapters to give your lover a surprise such as a striptease or lap dance ( Chapter 6 ), a sudden spanking or punishment ( Chapter 10 ), or improvised erotic role play ( Chapter 4 ).
    The Sex Buffet
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