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the same woman who LOVED it when I used just the tip of my middle finger to rapidly go in and out of the opening of her vagina. A penetration of only an inch or two. It served to give her a very powerful orgasm.

    By now you have probably noticed that we have covered just about every square millimeter of female sexual anatomy. That is pretty much the case. The secret is that you experiment with your woman to find what works best for her.
    Some spots are more universally responsive than others, and some spots work better on some women than others.
    As you will find in "David Shade's Manual," most any spot on a woman's body can be used to give her an orgasm, including her nipples and her lips.
    You may also find that your woman's preferences and responses vary over time. This is normal, and actually a good thing. It means that you are learning more about her, and she is becoming increasingly responsive to you.

Give Her Her First Orgasm

    So let’s say you are dating a woman who has never had an orgasm. What are you going to do?
    You can’t rely on intercourse. All the guys before you have tried that.
    You can’t rely on licking her clit. All the guys before you have tried that.
    And you can’t rely on rubbing her G spot. At least some of the guys before you have tried that.

You have to be different.
    You are going to be different in 2 ways:
You are going to perform a different type of stimulation
You are going to use effective mental techniques
    The reason why you have to perform a different type of stimulation is because all the previous stimulation that she has felt has been associated with her NOT having an orgasm. You must AVOID that.
    You will use deep spot stimulation. It happens to be very effective in giving a woman her first vaginal orgasm, and most likely no man has ever done that to her before.
    And now for the critically important mental techniques.
    Remember, in order that you cause her to orgasm, you must command respect with her. You will be giving her commands, and she must do them for this to be successful. Thus, her respect for what you say must override her own self consciousness and self limiting beliefs.
    The biggest thing keeping her from having an orgasm is her belief that she can’t.
    If you were to insist to her that she could have an orgasm, she will simply disagree, which will build up her resistance to having an orgasm.
    If you make orgasm the goal for her, she will have performance anxiety, which will make it even more difficult for her to have an orgasm.
    So in order that you do not stir up her objections to having an orgasm:

You must not mention anything about orgasms!
    Your goal of giving her an orgasm is your little secret. But how are you going to give her an orgasm without actually mentioning anything about orgasms?

You will simply give her pleasure.
    You will say to her: “Baby, I just want to give you pleasure. It excites me when you feel this pleasure that I give you.”
    Women love it when they excite their man. Women love it when their man just wants to give her pleasure for no other reason than to revel in her and please her.
    So she will be relaxed and receptive.
    Even though a woman has not had an orgasm, she still likes sex. She likes the intimacy. It is the physical celebration of the attraction and of the emotional connection. And women love to see their man get sexually excited over her.
    Even though she knows she is not going to have an orgasm, she still likes to have her clitoris rubbed and licked by her man. It feels good, and it makes her feel that she is desired.
    Even though she knows she is not going to have an orgasm in intercourse, she still likes it when her man makes love to her. For her, it is the ultimate physical celebration of the relationship. And it is affirmation for her that her man is excited about her.
    So you certainly have the opportunity.
    Start the stimulation. But you have to give her some incentive to soak up as much pleasure input as possible.