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have an orgasm from anal stimulation alone. A woman can even go to a stage hypnosis show and be given an instant orgasm on command with no stimulation whatsoever. There is absolutely nothing that is keeping a woman from having a vaginal orgasm except her own self limiting beliefs.

Any physically and mentally healthy woman is capable of a vaginal orgasm
    with only vaginal stimulation.
    Now let’s discuss forms of vaginal stimulation. . . .

The G Spot

    In 1880, Dr. Skene wrote of paraurethral glands (on either side) of the female urethra.
    In 1944, Dr. Grafenberg and Dr. Dickinson wrote about an erogenous zone in the tissue located between 1) the front wall of the vagina and 2) where the urethra meets the bladder.
    In 1950, Dr. Grafenberg wrote that this area enlarges with sexual stimulation and swells during orgasm.
    In 1982, R.N. Whipple and Dr. Perry proposed that the G spot is the Skene glands, or basically, the female equivalent of the male prostate.
    The G spot is about 1 ½” to 2 ½” inches inside the vagina along the front wall.

    There has always been great debate as to where the G spot is. Many have asked if it even exists. It most certainly does. But most people do not elicit a response from it for any of a number of reasons. Maybe the trust is not there. Maybe the man does not command respect. Maybe she has a mental block against having a vaginal orgasm. On and on.
    For women who respond very well to G spot stimulation, they know exactly where it is. They usually have a favorite sexual position so that their man’s penis can hit their G spot just right.
    The generally suggested way to stimulate the G spot is to use your index and middle finger. Go in to about the second joint. Press against the front wall of the vagina. Pump towards the front.
    If a woman has had G spot orgasms before, she will have a very specific way for the spot to be stimulated. For women who have not, it is important to gauge her response to various stimulation methods.
    G spot stimulation is generally considered the most recommended way to stimulate a woman to ejaculate. More about female ejaculation later.

The Deep Spot

    At its greatest depth, the inner diameter of the vagina increases.
    This area is no longer spongy, but instead smooth.
    This area is called the “cavity of the cervix.” This area is shaped like the underside of a Frisbee, with the cervix in the center pointing downward. The outer edge of the Frisbee defines the deepest points of the wall of the vagina.
    The deep spot is about 3 ½” to 4” inside.

    Have her lie on her back and hold her legs open with her knees bent. You sit to the side of her legs with the front of your body facing towards her head. Lubricate your hands well with Astroglide.
    Finger nails must be highly polished and very short.
    With your palm up, slide your middle finger into her vagina, along the front wall of her vagina, as far as possible. (Don’t worry, your finger is long enough if you press hard enough against her.)
    Curl the tip of your finger in a “come hither” manner, while pressing hard against the front wall of the vagina.
    When you massage the deep spot, do it firmly.

    Imagine the way you hold a Frisbee. Your fingertips touch the inside edge of the Frisbee. Curl the tip of your finger down the inside edge of the Frisbee in a “come hither” manner.
    Make sure your hand is well lubricated and press hard against her to get your fingertip all the way in.
    The cervix will feel like the tip of a nose. Do NOT press against her cervix. To some women that is a very unpleasant feeling. There is a small percentage who like it.
    Because the uterus is slightly tilted towards the front, the cavity of the cervix is also slightly tilted. The Frisbee is lower in the front and higher in the back. The entire inside edge of the Frisbee, all the way around, is sensitive.
    Another variation to this is to go in along the back wall of her vagina. Go in as deep as possible. Along the back it is