Introduction
Maria and Stevey Joy
One night as I was trying to do some writing for my album This Moment ââtryingâ being the key word in that sentenceâI took on bath duty with my two littlest girls. Stevey Joy and Maria were both three years old at the time, and they did not at all share my concern that bath time should run efficiently. In fact, quite the opposite: every time I turned around to get shampoo or a wash cloth, I looked back at the tub and saw only ripples in the bathwater, no girls. Where did they go? A few moments later I heard the giggles and saw the two princesses, Cinderella and Snow White (with a little help from Disney costumes), cheering,âWeâre going to a ball, Daddy!â I was stressed with my workload, frustrated, and tired, and it was already lateâwell past an acceptable bedtime.âNo,â I corrected,âyouâre not going to the ball, youâre going in the tub.â
Finally, after foiling two or three of their attempts to escape, I managed to get them dried off and hurried them to bed.âDad, read us a story,â they pleaded.âNo, no stories tonight! Itâs too late,â I said.âWeâre going to pray, pray quick, and go to bed! Pray a short prayer, immediate family only! Just pray, fast.â I was so frustrated. I had to go back to workâI was trying to write these songs and make some progress on the album. And finally, I got them to bed. âNo, no more drinks of water! Nothing! Go to sleep! I love you. Good night. Lights off. Kisses. Good night.â
I closed the door, and it hit me. I felt as if God leaned down and whispered this name: Emily Chapman. And I knew immediately that He was speaking to my heart. You see, my daughter Emily is now twenty-one years old, and sheâs grown and gone off and is changing the world herself. And God was saying to me,âSteven, you big knucklehead, are you really going to rush through these moments like this and miss these priceless snapshots in time? Because you know how fast theyâll go by. Remember little Emily?â
My wife and I have had the luxury of seeing our kids grow into wonderful young adultsâand seeing with our own eyes how quickly these times really do go by. Thinking about this was very convicting and I thought,
You know what? I do this so much. I do a lot of rushing through the moment that Iâm in, and I miss some important times. And I think Iâm probably not alone in this. I have to write a song about these priceless moments so that I wonât forget, and maybe I can help someone else remember it too.
Thatâs the story behind the song âCinderellaâ and the book you hold in your hands.
I worry about the five minutes or five days or five years ahead. Or I look over my shoulder and say,âBoy, that was great back there,â or âI should have done this back there.âGodâs really been teaching me about making sure Iâm showing up in the moment Heâs placed me inâthe good ones, the hard ones, the happy ones, the sad onesâevery single moment. The moments on stage with my sons as the proudest dad on the planet, thanking God for this gift of getting to tour with Caleb and Will in my band, as well as that moment at 3:00 a.m. when the babyâs screaming and Iâm wondering, Whatâs going on, God, and how do we deal with this?
I believe God wants us to be engaged in these moments with our children, and all of the moments in between. I often hear talk in our circles about âGod moments,â times when something particularly amazing happens and we know God is involved. While Iâve experienced plenty of those and am so thankful for those times, I believe every minute weâre drawing breath is really a âGod moment.âGod is showing up in every moment and revealing something about Himself to us if we just have eyes to see it and ears to hear it, and most importantly a
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