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PARTNERING QUESTIONS
    When practicing G-spot stimulation, or any sexual play really, you should concentrate on raising awareness. Focus on and think about what you and your partner are doing, and talk about it. This doesn’t mean that you have to plan things out in detail. Just learn to look inside, understand what you’re wanting and feeling, and then discuss it. And never do anything to one another, even a long-term partner, without permission.
    If you know where you and your partner both stand on sexual issues, it’s much easier to relax. If you trust that your partner will respect your needs and limits, you don’t have to maintain tight control all the time. Tantric Sex practitioners often focus on preparations beforehand so that we haven’t a care in the world during the experience and can become thoroughly spontaneous and in-the-moment when it counts.
    Trying out new things like G-spot massage and female ejaculation can be frightening or uncomfortable at first. That’s why you need to
practice your sexual play as a partnership involving mutual consent and equal participation as both giver and receiver. Always start a new sexual experience by discussing three issues:
    1. DESIRES: what you want, intend, or hope will happen,
    2. CONCERNS: what’s on your mind or what you’re worried about
    3. BOUNDARIES: lines you don’t want your partner to cross.
    We call these the Partnering Questions.
    For example, before a sensual massage a woman might ask for…
    long, slow, oiled strokes (desires),
    without things turning too sexual because she’s having menstrual cramps (concerns)
    and with no penetration (boundaries).
    PRACTICE: PARTNERING QUESTIONS
    PURPOSE
    The following practice guides you in getting familiar with the three Partnering Questions by discussing the topic of sex in general. During later practices, you’ll use them to prepare more specifically.
    1. LOOK INSIDE
    Take a moment to look within and identify how satisfied you are with your current sex life. Consider what you’ve had, what you’ve got, how it’s working, how it’s not, plus what you want more of and less of. Include desires, feelings, concerns, frustrations, and fantasies. The more honestly you can do this, the better your coming experiences will be.
    2. ONE PARTNER PRESENTS
    One explains their desires, concerns, and boundaries regarding sex with the other. The other partner should simply listen, acknowledge, and ask for clarification only if necessary to understand. A minute each is usually sufficient for each question.
    3. OTHER PARTNER PRESENTS
    Exchange roles so the other partner can explain their answers to the three questions.
    4. NEGOTIATE
    If there are differences in desires or boundaries that conflict, discuss what you can do to honor each other’s wishes.
    PRACTICE: HOW TO TOUCH ME
    This practice facilitates letting your lover know in advance what you want, where you want it, and how you want it. At last, you can reveal your innermost sensual, sexual, and erotic desires. The purpose of this practice is to let your beloved know in explicit detail how you like to be approached, spoken to, touched, and excited.
    1. DECIDE
    Decide who will go first. You can also decide if you both want to be nude. The first speaker can disrobe seductively if that’s fun for both of you. This makes your connection playful and serious at the same time.
    2. DESCRIBE AND DEMONSTRATE
    Describe and demonstrate the ways you like to be approached: verbally or non-verbally, ritually or playfully, softly or roughly, or all of the above. Specifically, what kind of touching do you like where? Touch yourself in each place as you talk about it. Do you want talking or kissing or other things first? Stroke your body as you want your lover to stroke you. Demonstrate on yourself what turns you on most. You can also do the same to your partner if that helps. If you’re not